Why is it that all men want is to have sex with me? Cant they just have normal fun?

Question

Every guy i meet is like " yeah you look good .. wanna come to y place and fool around"

You know there is more to life then sex and pretty women like us have to go through all our lives dodging hornballs.

Are there any guys out there that Think of other ways to have a good time. Like going to a movie together, having a nice dinner.

I told this one guy I wanted to go get a perm and hes like " Why you look good the way you are. good enough to sleep with"

Notice he had to throw in sex instead of just complimenting me without trying to take me to bed.

To the last girl.

I also date girls. I am bisexual

Answer 1

I have that same problem. I usually just sleep with them right away to get rid of the sexual tension.

Answer 2

I would rather have a good time by going to diner at a Pub/resturant (nothing too fancy) or go out in the woods to go spot wildlife or go bowling (if the women didn't mind)
Most men you talk too probaly feel that acting like they do will get you intrested in a long term relathionship and maybe tjhey scared so many women off that they don't know what sex is like and want try it out.
By the way the why do Lesbians hate Men so much Gays like women.And why do think so much of yourself anyway Many women do the same thing but calling one a Hornball would get you thrown in Jail.

Answer 3

Ok - wait a minute. Is that you in the pic with the unibrow and the wacked out grill? Where do you live and are the men there from some other planet? Regardless, have you everseen Will & Grace?? There is about 10 % of the male population that would litterally GAG if you were to show them your vagina or boobies. Believe me. Those guys don NOT want you for sex.

Answer 4

Are you a HE or a She? Your last question was about this recipie that you made for a SHE to come to your place for dinner?

If you are a HE in the real, then you know the answer.. your hormones are raging and you gotta learn some MANNERS and RESPECT to control yourself in order to 'gain a woman's trust' so she'll WANT to sleep with you.

If you are a woman, then all I can say is.. walk away.. don't give them the time of day when they make comments like that. Of course you want to be liked and friendly, but those comments are annoying and it's not worth your time or energy to even respond. If guys are gonna be that disrespectful, then they aren't worth my time and shouldn't be worth yours!

Answer 5

Tip: "dress for success"--- We only get a headshot so we don't really know how you dress. Take a hard look at yourself and see if the way you dress might not be too provocative. If men see a good looking woman dressed like a slut they naturally put two and two together. Men are dogs! That's a given (I know, I am one) Tip #2 : Some dogs are pedigree, most are mutts--- be patient and wait for the guy who can treat you like you deserve to be treated! GOOD LUCK :) !

Answer 6

Face it, you are not that pretty, and an orgasm feels good, I do not care who you are,,,, it feels good. So, sex is fun!!!!!!!!!!! It is healthy. It is better than drugs, more powerful than alcohol, and it is never used in the way it should be. Just PLAIN FUN!!!!!! If you are not having fun with it,,,, try harder, cause you are doing it wrong. Men will never get over the "hang up" with sex until women quit using it as a tool.

Answer 7

First , your not that hot , therefore the men are not afraid to aproch you in that way . Second , the place you meet people my have something to do with it . If you hang around bars or party alot this is most likely what you will encounter .

Answer 8

Sure I would take you out the ummmmmmm waterbed world?nahhhh not that i got kicked out of there.How about having a nice walk down the beach throwing sand at bums on the ground laying there covered in alcohol?YEAAAAAAAA sounds good to me

Answer 9

if that picture is you, I'd have to put a flag over your face or turn out the lights to do you. I do not see any thing pretty in your picture sorry. (Do i see Vampire teeth or are you laughing like a horse?) I can't help it when someone thinks so highly of themself to say they are pretty. you are better off letting someone else telling you that.

If they are in a rush to get you into bed its probable because they do want to be seen in public with you.

Answer 10

Oh Baby!! I know what your saying....as a male who is blonde and blue eyed...tall with a good build...I go through the same thing everyday!!

Talking about dinner.....I've always felt that if its not real linen on top of the table...and the candles arnt real...and if the menu isnt bound in leather....the place isnt worth eating at.

Answer 11

You are looking in the wrong places. Me and my girlfriend go for movies dinners walks in the park way more than having sex. Forget the perverts and look somewhere else.