i was with someone for almost a year and when we broke up 5 days later he got with my EX best friend and now has a baby with her but i cant seem to forget about him and this was almost 2 years ago but i feel im still in love with him but i currently have a boyfriend and i feel so bad . so how do i get over my ex?
2006-06-28 13:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by =) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is the only cure, I am sorry
2006-06-28 13:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, have a good cry. Then pull yourself together and hold your chin up with confidence. In the long run do you want a man who would leave you for a best friend. And do you want a best friend who would go with your man without haveing a heart to heart talk with you?
Move onward and upward. At least appear to be fine and stong until you actually get those feelings. You can do one of two things....Sit them both down and say "I am really ticked off by your behavior, but I don't want to lose you guys as friends, so lets put this behind us and move on" Or you could spend the rest of your life in missesry and hate and loathing.....this will make you be hard for others to be around and your painful heart will hurt your future for getting any happiness.
. Another thing to do is change your group of friends- get rid of the pain. Smile and get on with life. You deserve a better man.
This is a lesson in life, you can't always trust people. When you do find friends to trust you are very fortunate and lucky. Treasure them. Remember you choose your destiny.
2006-06-28 13:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it takes long to get over it even more then 2years. There is no possible way to forget such a bad thing especially since you still have feelings. But try to have fun with your boyfriend try doing things you and your ex never did before....Try finding the best side of your boyfriend and try to let him in your heart you may think that you are already letting him but your not try letting him get to you like make the silliest things to make you laugh or even make you cry I mean in a good way! But try to take your mind off of him for a few days even. How about you and your boyfriend plan a little get away or a romantic one for a few days or a weekend maybe those few days will help you feel differently about your boyfriend and maybe you probably realize that you do LOVE your Ex but not the way you thought! Try it!
2006-06-28 13:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Buga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 09:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by dubinsky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. It's hard to forget about someone you really loved. you have to believe everything happens for a reason, and it wasn't meant to be for you two to stay together. Be happy with your new boyfriend, and don't let your EX control your life because right now that's what you're doing. If you want to talk to someone IM me @ princess987mn. Good Luck!
2006-06-28 13:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something reminds you of him, don't think about the good times you went through, think about the bad times you went through because of him.
If he has a baby with your ex best friend, then he already forgave about you so now you have to forgive about him.
Also, try to avoid him as much as you can so you won't see him and think about him.
Go to nice places with your new boyfriend and share good times with him so that you will learn to love him.
Hope this helps!
2006-06-28 13:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by stylish gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to move on - by the looks of it he has and there is no going back!
You should try and forget him - meet some new friends and enjoy the time you have with your current boyfriend.
Life's to short to dwell on the past!
2006-06-28 13:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and I suffered the same as you. The only thing that can help you is either commiting suicide or killing the two of them. Now I would advise you not to do that instead the best thing for you is TIME its going to take time believe me...You're going to go through stages of anger, sadness........I'm glad I got over it.
2006-06-28 13:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by from your dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a friend if she got with your ex after 5 days. it sounds like they were already messing around. you should just leave the two of them a lone and find some one else. if he cheated on you then he will cheat on her to.
2006-06-28 13:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by nanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's hard. but ur going to have to try to let it go if u really like the person ur with now. if u have anything in ur house that reminds u of him let it go. and just think he could be doing the same thing while he is with that other girl. u know he just might be thinking of u now that he lossed someone that he loved.
2006-06-28 13:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by brigirl207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know that your ex was petty and choose something that reminded him of u or either tried to make u jealous. get on with your life , because he has moved on with his for the better or worse
2006-06-28 13:25:59 · answer #11 · answered by APRIL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋