Have been with this guy for about 2 1/2 months in this time we have only had time together once and that has been awhile he works crazy hours every day of the week, he says he loves me and needs me but can't seem to make time to be with me when I mention it to him he keeps telling me he is trying and we will have quality time together soon to just be patient...Not sure how much patients I have left and am becomeing frustrated I love him and care for him but how can I keep my life on hold for someone who doesnt even seem like he cares..
2006-06-28 13:13:19 · 10 answers · asked by shell b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I might of failed to mention that I know he is not married and that he has only bee in this state for a few months and hasnt had time to meet people...I know he isnt cheating but his job is ore important then me he asked me to marry him and to just give him time to get the plant running right and he will be able to have time for me..
2006-06-28 13:30:37 · update #1
You have serious reason to doubt his sincerity.
However, doubt is not guilt.
Give him a time frame.
Tell him that within 3 months things must change or its over.
You'll have your answer within the first of those 3 months.
2006-06-28 13:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to just give this guy some time. He seems like he's trying to get his finances in order and the only way to do that is to work all the time for a while. I know because that is what I do.
2006-06-28 14:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm NO. what are you waiting for exactly? this guy to find a spare minute to come over and fool around then go home? you can get that in any bar any night of the week. its not a relationship its a booty call. yes he says nice things but his actions don't reflect the truth of what he says and that means what he says is a LIE. move on, he's using you either that or he's married and the wife won't let him out. sorry but nobody works that much.
2006-06-28 13:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not wait for him . If he really cared he would really find time to be with you. Why put your life on hold for someone who will not find a few min for you?
2006-06-28 13:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has a wife or another girlfriend. I've always said a person makes time for what they want to do and they don't find time for what they don't want to do. go on with your life. the next time he calls tell him you are busy and it is over. if he stops by, tell him you don't want to see him anymore, tell him you have moved on and he should do the same.
2006-06-28 13:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he works a lot he wants to retire in one year so y'all can spend every minute of every hour of every day together..be patient...
2006-06-28 13:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by SUGA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait about 1 week, and if things didn't improve i would be gone
my life is too important to waste on someone elses empty promises
2006-06-28 13:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it, say u have been waiting forever and that he doesn't seem to be showing that he cares. yea i would wait
2006-06-28 13:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, then wouldn't he find time to be with you?
2006-06-28 13:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him.... would yo want him to wait for you if you were him
2006-06-28 13:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋