Why does God love pretty girls more than me?

Question

Every pretty girl I know has guys all over her and she always gets everthing she wants, and God lets it all happen. But guys just make fun of me and tell me I smell like rags. its not fair. Why does God hate me so much?

Answer 1

Probably because you are ugly and smell like rags.

Answer 2

1.) God does not hate you.
2.) The pretty girls get everything they want beacuse they have learned how to manipulate people using their looks as kind of a false emulation that "If you give me that, you might get a piece of me."
3.) God doesn't let it all happen. In the 1970's a movie came out titled "OH GOD". It featured John Denver as the manager of a supermarket and George Burns in the role of God. They have a conversation where John tells God "why do you do the things you do to us? All the heartbreak, the trauma right down to the least cut from a razor while you're shaving?" God tells him, "I don't, that's all up to you. You're on your own. Oh, you can ask me for help, and I will, but whatever else happens to you is just what happens. But when it all comes down to your end time, your actions here on Earth will determine your eternity."
4.) Practice hygiene REGULARLY. Bathe everday, wear clean clothes everyday, shampoo your hair, use deodorant/antiperspirant. try a tad bit of perfume. take the time to brush your hair nicely, and most importantly, brush your teeth at least once a day. If you have acne, treating it regularly and washing your face everyday will go a long way to a more healthy looking skin. And by the way, after you shampoo that hair, dry it properly. Hair that isn't dried properly and gets sweaty, really CAN make you smell like a wet dog.
5.) Once you've taken all of these things into account and continue to do them the rest of your life, you'll find something interesting will happen. For many years I've told people this, and many times I've been proven right. You're going to spend a lot of time wishing you had a mate. And lot of depressing time most likely. BUT, when you least expect it, more speciffically, when you're not even looking for it or thiking about it, love is going to find YOU. Don't go looking for love in a bar or night club, you're going to find lust 90% of the time.
6.) The boys are jerks. They get off on making others feel bad because it makes their shortcomings seem less of a problem.
7.) You need to build up some self esteem, have some pride in yourself, follow the suggestions above, and it will happen naturally.

2A). ***** NOTE ***** Not ALL the pretty girls are like that. Most are absolutely sincere and follow the "Golden Rule" Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. There's a lot of pretty girls out there that are suffering much of the same grief you are. Frustration is the norm, and they wonder why they can't get things like the other girls. Good things come to those who wait.

FINALLY...I loathe the term "shoving religion down other people's throat". That's not what I'm doing here. I want to share a single verse from the Bible that took me from the lowest most depressing time in my life to quite a different outlook. I'm only using this verse because of the wisdom it holds. So when you look at how others act and how you are treated, think of this...

1 Peter 3:17 For it is better, if the will of God should so will, that you suffer for doing good, than for doing evil.

I hope I've helped in any way and wish you PEACE

Answer 3

God does not like pretty girls more than you. Society does. I'm betting that you're still fairly young (under 22 or so). Guys at that age are after the "pretty package."
As for the rags thing... well, kids are cruel.
I think you're putting too much faith in looks. Ask yourself, do they really matter? I'm sure it seems like they do. But the truth is, you don't have to be pretty to be happy.
Just be yourself, and as for the people that say you smell like rags, would you really want a guy like that for a boyfriend?
Just be patient, i'm sure there's somebody out there that likes you and is just to afraid to let you know. It's also possible that he hasn't met you yet.

Answer 4

God does not love pretty girls more.

These girls just happen to get more of what you desire because of their looks. They might have zero personality or intelligence. You on the other hand might have the brains and a wonderful personality, but unfortunately people are initially judged by their appearance.

Perhaps you should take better hygienic approaches in your everyday life such as deodorants, perfumes and body wash. I only assume you do not smell good because guys say you smell. Or if that is not the problem try getting a makeover. Invest in this if it will make you happy in the long run.

Answer 5

You are equating people's decisions with what God wants, and that is something you can't do. God has never been concerned with the outward appearence of anyone. He is concerned with who that person is on the inside. Their character, their spirit, their kindness, forgiveness, generosity and all the things that make a person more like Him.
Men and women will always be drawn to the pretty, rich, powerful...and so on, but those who are wise will see that these things are things that pass away quickly while the other qualities that make a partener worth having, are the ones that must be found out in the development of a relationship.
As for hating you...no. He does not hate you. Your own self image is the one telling you that...and you need to like yourself before others will see how much of you there is to like.

Answer 6

Sweetie...God doesn't hate you. Maybe He wants you to love yourself the way He made you...did you ever think about that? The right time and place will come for everything . I felt like you when I was younger. Please...do something for yourself. No one can make you feel better than you making yourself feel better about yourself. Buy a new outfit, get your hair and nails done. Pamper yourself. Guys like girls that can take care of themselves. Also, a boy should not just be interested in your looks, but also your personality. Foremost though, who cares if you don't have a b/f right away? Focus on something else you really like to do in your spare time. Boys aren't everything. I'm going to tell you and the rest of the world a secret...I didn't have my first real b/f until after HS. I was like you...I didn't think I was ever going to find a guy that liked me, but one day I met this guy and things just clicked. It can happen just like that...in fact so fast it could make your head spin! Keep faith and things will work out. Good Luck!

Answer 7

The pretty girls you speak of, and the guys all around them, you never even know what that is all about. I know you must be lonely, but sometimes you have to know that what you want is inside of you, you can't wait for God to give it to you. I don't know everything sweetie, but I don't think he gives out boyfriends. There is a song by Garth Brooks, its called " Thank God for Unanswered Prayers". you should listen to. If you believe God gives out boyfriends, then you must believe then that he knows whats best for now. I hardly think he gives out any blessings based on looks, that wouldn't be the loving God that I've learned about. We have free will for most things, use it. If you make yourself happy, believe me, others will notice, and if they don't, guess what, you are still happy. And telling you that you smell like rags.............first off, why would you want ANY boy who talks like that to anyone, they have a cruel streak, not cool, and second off, what the heck does a rag smell like, per se ???? They are just trying to be hateful and frankly stupid, and they are succeeding on both.
Pretty girls do seem to get a lot, don't they. But it doesn't mean they are really happy, or that they even feel appreciated for who they are, not what they are. Boys hurt them too, and good looking guys get hurt too. Looks don't guarantee you anything but initial interest, appreciation and maybe even good things, but it is not a lasting thing. Love yourself girl, no one can love you like you should be loved until you do. Hugs.

Answer 8

I don't think you're serious because I see a beautiful person, but if you are, then realize this...even pretty girls get their hearts broken. And for all these rude and sassy remarks, F*&^ them! Some people still haven't found the time to grow up and step away from the physical mirror into the mental mirror. B*^%$Es think that it's all fun and games when someone's trying to be serious, they bash at you with their haha remarks, whose to say what pretty is and what ugly is? OPINIONS! Sometimes I wish they could just leave us alone and base this everything on facts. We don't have enough of those.

Answer 9

God does not hate you, God loves you as much as He loves all His children!Those things you are describing may seem so important to you right now but they're not important. The Bible says seek ye first the kingdom of Heaven and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. that means seek God and all those things you want will come. Right now you are selfishly putting your earthly wants in front of Him wanting them more than you want His love. Get God first and beauty will come, the right guy will come along with the right relationship for your life. The Bible also says He blesses the just as well as th unjust, so it looks like others are getting all the good stuff well just do right and watch what God does for you...but God does not hate you He loves you very much....

Answer 10

Noooo! dont think like that and dont be jealous either, i know how it feels and i ask the same questions, why does God do this and why does He do that? Everything happens for a reason. God loves all of his children. That certain pretty could have guys all over her but personal demons and other negative things about herself too. There are positives and negatives to everyone. Maybe its your SELF ESTEEM and CONFIDENCE.. if you feel that you are ugly, make yourself look better, try a new hair style, makeup, clothes, and carry yourself with your head head high and 100% confidence.

Answer 11

I advise that you need a therapy because your questions means that you really need special dedicated help.

Many pretty females are surrounded by men, because men get attached to facial beauty..But everyone knows that after a while you just forget the face and the bidy features and focus on the insides.

As your insides are not suffering dis-order, then no way a man would get even close.

Finally, why do not you smell better..Is there no water at home?