2006-06-28 12:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by fuzzywuzzysgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, you can feel whole again, but first you have to let go. That doesn't mean forget about him. In the White people world I've experienced that time would eventually heal your wounds and that your husband would want you to move on. He wouldn't want you to be unhappy. In heaven they know you are sad but they would all want you to be strong and live life to the fullest. In my peoples ways, it is similar. It's not all the time but there use to be a time when a loved one died they had a mourning period which lasted a year, but then they were to stop weeping and to continue on with their lives. But, in either world, no one forgets their loved ones. Move on slowly with your friends and family. If it's meant to be you will find love again. I know you will say you will never find another man like him, but nobody is asking that of you. People out here in this world still love you and want's you to be happy again. you probably don't realize it yet but your friends and loved ones are hurting right along with you too. it's up to you to make everyone smile again. Let the sun shine through ok? And remember he's alive in the spirit and he is with God. Everybody is watching over you from up there so don't cry forever. Yes, people in heaven are alive. You are alive. Live again. Jump up and down, do a flip. Live everyday as if it were your last. Stop and smell the roses. And don't take life for granted. Enjoy the beauty of God. That means everyone and everything. Love God with all your might He won't ever let you down. Smile, have a coke, An ice cream. Do what ever you want to do. and just be plain happy once again. Life goes on. Come on with us. we are going that way. I promise you, you won't be sorry.
2006-06-28 14:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. Healing takes time, but eventually, you will love life again. I lost a child 12 yrs ago and I still miss her so much, but the pain has lessened. I don't think the pain ever disapears but it does get better over time.
2006-06-28 19:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by blue-eyez76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so very sorry,genuinely.Ive lost a member of my family but not a partner.I have no idea what that feels like.I hope you have had bereavement counselling,because it really helps to unburden.You need to get out and mix with people.He wouldnt want you to be miserable,and I know he would hope that one day you will find someone else.grief is horrible,you have to put closure on this.
2006-06-29 09:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone shall taste death. And only on the Day of Resurrection shall you be paid your wages in full. And whoever is removed away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise, he indeed is successful. The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing)
It is He Who gives life, and causes death, and to Him you (all) shall return.
well no one can replace you husband.
but if you desire you can marry once again,
life will be easy and new again with joy.
2006-06-28 20:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by saleem k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a child and the answer is no and yes. It will heal but there will always be a painful scar and you won't ever be the same but you will begin to enjoy things again. He'd want you to.
2006-06-28 19:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by swdMO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. I know it probably doesn't feel like it now, but you will heal over time. For now, try spending time with family and friends who will be there for you. Take time to grieve and let your heart mend. Be strong, you can make it through! Maybe go talk to a therapist, they can help!!
2006-06-28 19:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by jjdanca18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss.
but he would want to see you happy!
(I know you've heard it before but it's true)
he is with you
because you love him
& you were lucky to have him for the time that you did in life,
love is eternal...
write down your memories of him
everything you can think of that made you smile
then when you're smiling...
he'll be smiling too......
2006-06-28 19:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by drgn grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will you just have tothink about what you would want him to do if you left him? would you want him to be sad and depressed? no you would want him to move onand have fun in life, take a class or join a book club. good luck.
2006-06-28 19:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for hearing this.. but i believe you can.. its a matter of time .. you should go out and have fun with you family and friends.. dont forget him.. put him in ur heart and mind.. just keep on living your life..
2006-06-28 19:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Princesa De Muerte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss....I know this might sound like a cliche but time heals all wounds
2006-06-28 19:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Miss D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋