2006-06-28 12:27:44 · 96 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i HAD THE MOST ROMANTIC TRUE LOVE STORY OF A SOULMATE FINDING ME...or vice versa. It was perfect. A perfect love story, I was a disaster relief aide for hurricane victims he was an anti terrorist agent and swedish helicopter pilot. I went to Sweden just to meet him and couldnt do other than love each other for 5yrs.
Then the truth came out. He yanked me out of my environment, made me divorce, made me get surgeries so I'd not give him problems, he'd promised to marry and take care of me and what not. IT WAS A DREAM.
Our rides and nights out or day time was not in car but in a helicopter from the Army, he was always so spontaneous and fun and gorgeous.
But he forgot in 5 years to ltell me he was never going to leave his other life. A life wth another woman, at another house, with a daughter in Linkoping (Central Sweden( and with me IN Ronneby south of Sweden, having left America and then some.
He would leave me alone, in acountry that I did not understand nor spoke their language then, for weekends so he could go "motorbiking" and instead I found him answering the phone at his OWN HOUSE FARAWAY FROM "OURS",
with his other girlfreind "sambo" which is almost a wife in Sweden ...since they have not heard there that marriage is important people dont marry. They get together have children and voila...they are free to run with whomever they want...outside theri arrangement. Thats what a sambo is.
THIS GUY AS MUCH AS HE WAS MY SOULMATE AND TRUE LOVE, THERE WAS ONE DIFFERENCE: I DID TRULLY LOVED HIM AND LEFT ALL FO RHIM. AND NEVER DID I CHEAT AT ALL NOT EVEN ONCE.
HE? HE CHEATED ON ME, ON HIS SAMBO AND HIS DAUGHTER'S WELLBEING.
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. I LEFT HIM AND I HOPE THAT I NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN FOR HE BROKE MY LIFE NOT JUST MY HEART.
I WOULD NEVER TAKE HIM BACK, KNOWING WHAT I KNOW TODAY, NOT EVEN THE DRAMATIC EXCTATIC LOVE WE SWORE FOR EACH OHTER, HE NEVER DELIVERED IN THE END.
I DID. HE DID NOT.
I do not think that men who cheat are capable of being monogamous IN ALL THEIR LIFE.
so no, the answer is a big BIG
NO
2006-07-05 15:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Most likely not because good chances are that this experience will keep repeating. But often times in the life there are things that have to be considered:
are you married,
do you both have children
what was the reason for cheating in the first place
have there been any other cheating episodes (with you or somebody else). If you are not married, drop the cheater and move on. Don't waste your time on person who is not considering you the only one.
2006-06-28 12:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by mini golf blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, out of what I have seen of most guys that cheat, NO. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-07-01 20:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by rockstar_tiger05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not one on forgiveness. So I have 2 agree. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he did it once, whats 2 stop him from doing it again?
2006-06-28 12:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bab-E@Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I found out the hard way if you take a cheater back, not only can you never regain the trust you had for them, but given time and opportunity, they will cheat on you again and again. No matter how painful it is, it is best to cut your losses and get out before they hurt you again.
2006-06-28 18:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by RKM_LinkinLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. Only to have him cheat again. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-06-28 12:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by kittylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way..once a cheater always a cheater. not matter what the circumstance is. i mean look at me..i cheat in school all the time..and i'm not stoppin ..see what i mean. ..so there's no way i would take back a cheater.
2006-06-28 12:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by bunty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-06-28 12:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by quincie1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope once a cheater is always a cheater.
2006-06-28 12:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Once a cheater always a cheater. No matter what you will always think about it if you stay with them.
2006-06-28 12:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by inltmom-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-06-28 12:30:38 · answer #11 · answered by Sunny Christian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋