Any females out there that.....?

Question

Have a bf who has a kid with his ex-girlfriend and she's a BIATCH? How do you deal with her? How does it affect your relationship?

Answer 1

It all depends. Are you planning on marrying this guy? have kids with him? because this will be an investment. I'm on the other end of the stick. I'm the one with kids and an A$$hole ex b/f. I keep them separate at all times. I don't like my ex, i wish him nothing but death. But the fact is, he's my kids father and I have to deal with it. I keep all info to a minimum, so hopefully your b/f does the same. However, try to keep a third party distance on this. Any mean things she does, he's gonna vent to you about. It's not your job to "slash her tires, prank call her job" let him vent. He needs to ear to let out his frustrations. When the ex gets her own life, she'll give up making his frustration her happiness.

Answer 2

Hey shadypink its your computer BF. You know I am a lesbian trapped in my male body so my femalish side responds with let the BiAtcH Be THE BIaTCH and ignore it; hopefully one(U) has a relationship with the cool kid and can maintain a relationship with him/her and ur real b/f; if its a problem contact me, I don't have any kids and am single.

Answer 3

If your man is stong and intelligent you should have no conflict it shouldnt effect your relationship at all. If she is crazy thats her , dont worry about her let him deal with her. DOnt Deal with her, unless you guys are married thats not your child so you have no obligations and you dont have to fight visitation so screw her. Let him lay down the ground rules for her to follow and he should let her know that you are going to be the women in his life and that you will be in their childs life and she is going to have to deal with, she doesnt have to like it. But who cares,, as long as you are not causeing any trouble stay away from that mess and just focus on the relationship between you and your bf. If he cant handle her, then i would question if this relationship is worth it.

Answer 4

That must suck!!!! Omg...well... you can try to deal with it but you don't have to if you don't wanto stick around for that nonsense. Good luck....tell your bf what is going on and if not move on to something better that will only have YOUR kids. You committed to your bf, not your bf and his ex-girlfriend, you don't have to suffer for his mistakes. The least he can do is tell her she better be nice.Also she might be jealous that you might have a special place in her kid's life too. That doesn't justify the fact that she needs to have manners with you. It's not your fault she is a *****! Good luck :)!

Answer 5

Stay out of it , it can only cause problems between the two of you, be with him when your with him and not preoccupied with his ex-biatch!He'll think your cool if you stay cool,if you know what I mean!Don't play her game!!!

Answer 6

The best thing to do is just not deal with her at all. Don't talk to her, don't deal with her. Let her & your BF deal with it together and stay out of it. She probably resents you and that is HER problem, not yours.

Answer 7

I totally agree with staying out of it.

She won't care to hear anything you have to say, just stand next to your man in his decisions.

And don't discuss the mother negatively in front of the child.

Answer 8

who wants the baggage? Is he worth it? because IT will effect your relationship FOREVER!!! make sure your ready to commit. If you want a smooth relationship, no baggage, i suggest moving on and finding one with out the baggage!!! UNLESS you like the drama??? cause thats all your life is going to be now, is DRAMA

Answer 9

my husband has a daughter with a stuck up snob
yes i dislike her but i need to stay out of it
its there child.
it does not affect my marriage
if it does affect yours its only because you obviously are letting her in your relationship!