mine is an affair of 5 months...things have changed so much..v both work in call centres...just that im just having a time pass and he takes it as his career.he is so engrossed in his work.he calls up less than b4...however still v spend lot of time together but.. i still think something is wrong..my sixth sense...may b iam just being insecure i have talked to him abt it and he says he cant think of marrying nyone else...iam so damned confused.he has pretty faces all around him at the work place and never calls me up in his working hours.
2006-06-28 12:06:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is at work and has already told you it is his career-he's not going to call you from work. If he is showing other people attention outside of work, or giving you other reasons to doubt his sincerity, ASK HIM. It is the only way you will know, not on this public forum.
2006-06-28 12:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really loves you after all. Actually If you want to know if he loves you or not it depends on yourself to see what he doing in his work hours. He never calls up you in his working work because he maybe just focusing on his work. Besides if he got more payment from his company, he could take care of you.
Maybe in his mind you is the prettiest woman in the world. Maybe that the reason why he can't think of marrying anyone else. Do not depend so much on your sixth sense it might bring you to a wrong relationship with him. And thats all.
2006-06-28 12:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Haris_murshidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off an affair is pitifull neway. Second if your sixth sense is womens intuition its there for a reason; follow it! If he's not calling as much so what let him do his thing the last thing you need to do is nag him about it if he already seems like he's straying off neway. Don't call him either let him think you have other sh** to do too. Just don't let him know that you've been waiting around to hear 4rm him. Remember true love always finds its way home, lust strays away and stays.
2006-06-28 12:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by LuvBug132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affair? Doesn't that say a lot about the way you view this liason? Isn't it a romance, or a relationship? Affair implies 'illicit'. Is this guy forbidden fruit? Id there a sub text here? sounds to me like a nice guy. He's working for your future together. And there's always a pretty face, trust me. Do you love him? In my mind at least, the jury's out...
Good luck hon
2006-06-28 12:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Scannan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've been watching Oprah too much. :)
It annoys the heck out of me when women think about all of the what ifs. Pretty soon they're believing what they're thinking. Heck, my wife had a nightmare that I cheated on her and when she woke up she said she felt like hitting me! What thuh!?
JUST ASK HIM! Tell him you're concerned and express your feelings.
Everybody is insecure. It's human nature. Don't worry if you're a bit insecure.
No face is as pretty as the one you've been with for all this time. However, five months is a short time. Especially talking of marriage.
Either way, just talk. Share feelings and get it all out and over with.. and move on. Don't dwell on something that probably does not exist. If you ask him and he says no., trust him. If you have a lack of trust, it will turn in to trouble.
If you get burned., don't take it out on the next guy. We're all different. And there are honest men out there. You could have one of them.
2006-06-28 12:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun. you need to learn to relax...if this relationship you would like to last and grow then it is important for trust to be there...concentrate on sharing some really nice times together and not worrying about the times you are apart...I wish you every happiness!
2006-06-28 12:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many people ignore the 'red flaggs' that wave in front of their faces in relationships. Thats why the divorce rate is so high. Listen to that little voice inside your head and it will lead you in the right direction.
2006-06-28 12:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by tw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is let him know how you feel and go from there. Remember he can't read your mind.
NOW if he doesn't care you shouldn't be their anyway.
2006-06-28 12:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Vonicatripod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because u look like a ingrown toenail!
2006-06-28 12:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeas.he prolly dos loved you butt he licks his jhob an dos knot wasted his tyme macking personal kalls
2006-06-28 12:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋