2006-06-28 12:05:28 · 31 answers · asked by zooey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. he has no respect for you
2006-06-28 12:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While I wouldn't necessarily break up with my boyfriend if he checked out other girls in front of me, I would say that it is definitely a red flag. It is important to pay attention to red flags because if you don't you will eventually find yourself asking "how did it get this bad?" I am a firm believer that you can "look at the menu even if you know what you want to order". As long as it's done respectfully- if not... kick him to the curb. Remember you deserve the best- don't settle for less!
2006-06-28 19:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Yassie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very demeaning and hurtful. Guys, boys, men..the majority of them look, they are wired that way. They are visual creatures. That's why "sex" is such a money maker. Have you told him how you feel? Does he brush you off like your making too much out of it? If he does, then it's your choice to stay. You have to be self confidant and self respectful about yourself, first. If he goes beyond the looks to cheating or you suspect he cheats, then back off the relationship...and be your own best friend. Walk away before you get further involved or a STD. It's possible. Check out ...everymans battle workshops...they will give you some insights to this very common problem amongst males, young and old.
2006-06-28 19:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Mojo Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not define exactly how he checks them out... if he makes suggestive comments - for whatever reason, then he probably isn't ready to put your relationship first. If it is obvious and disrespectful... you know the answer. If it makes you feel uncomfortable or inadequate... leave him.
However - if you are completely secure in your relationship and he pays you heaps of attention - you feel happy but are asking simply out of wanting to do the right thing... leave him to it.
It boils down to what you will or will not accept and that is a choice you have to make.
2006-06-28 19:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happened to me. I noticed my boyfriend's eyes wandering, so I confronted him about it. He denied it; he said he wasn't just looking at women, but at the people in general. But he continued to do it. .. Long story short, we are not dating anymore. But the checking out other girls was only a small symptom of a larger issue. Bottom line-- his mind was on the wrong things.
2006-06-28 19:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by frau_verboten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There is nothing wrong with having a look - he always comes back to you.
There is only a problem if the looking becomes touching - lay the ground rules - I don't mind if you perve just don't touch!
Honesty in a relationship is a major thing. He is only human and the human instinct is to perve.
Hey - why don't you try it - perve on someone in his presence - see how he reacts!
2006-06-28 19:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm sure you check out other guys in front of him, you just dont realize it. I dont think it's a problem unless he's actually cheating on you. But looking is ok, you can do it too.
2006-06-28 19:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Regina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to look at someone else everyone does it and if they say no their lying. But if he is doing it in a disrespectful way I would leave him. There is two ways of looking at someone one is by just admiring them two by fantasizing about them. Sometimes you look at guys and in your head say wow he's really cute you look and turn away. The other way is by actually proceeding. If the guy is making obvious then he has no respect for you and I think you should leave him..
2006-06-28 19:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tinkerbell24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a toughie
there is a big difference between checking out other girls, and making moves on other girls
i have no problem with that if i know my guy loves me and wont leave me or cheat...i check out other guys...its not like we'd actually make a move on someone else.
so, no, I wouldnt leave my guy...if i trusted him enough
2006-06-28 19:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by alpha_xi_delta2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
They are immature boys with raging hormones. They will not act like rational people - you just need to understand that and not be frustrated by it. If he didn't check out girls, it would mean he is gay.
2006-06-28 19:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a low life....He has no respect for you at all...How would he feel if the shoe were on the other foot? I'd start checking out the guys just to let him see how it feels....
2006-06-28 19:10:37 · answer #11 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋