Serious question for women?

Question

I am just wondering why women act all innocent and call every guy a perv, when in reality a lot of girls a whores. For example, if i do not feel like going out into the world and getting aids what do I do? Masturbate, right? So if I masturbate am I a perv? What defines a perv? If I get turned on by the having women watch me masturbate on cam, does that make me a perv? If i am a loser and I cant get any, what is wrong with trying to have a women watch me masturbate? Isn't that better than being gay? Help me out here....

So what women in here would watch me on my cam?

Answer 1

Women's favorite thing to do is create double standards. And this is one of them. Another great double standard is the one where feminists say they want women to have aalll the same rights as men. Well how many women are in Iraq? Not many. Who's out in the driveway working on the car? Not a woman. It's how they are

Answer 2

Not ALL women act innocent or call men perverts. Of course, many women sleep around, but men do it too, so don't just say women have AIDS. Many don't.

If you don't want AIDS, I'd ask before having sexual relations with a partner if they have been tested for the STD or have been with someone who has it or has the possibility of getting it. It may be a turn off, but better safe than sorry.

You don't have to masturbate, many men can live healthy lives without ever having sex. No, masturbating doesn't make you a pervert, but unless someone else who does it hears about it, many people find it disgusting and a turn off. People who do masturbate won't care, simple enough.

If women LIKE watching you masturbate on a webcam.. well.. power to you I guess. I suggest just looking for a girlfriend, it'll be better than wishing you were with the people watching you pleasure yourself.

Just because you don't get laid like a lot of guys doesn't make you a loser. Everyone has their opinions about masturbation, and opinions on watching masturbation.

Being gay is a whole new subject, but unless you want to be gay and have relations with other men, then for you, yes, it is better.

However, I'm not too helpful on this subject, I'm not even going to have a sex life until marriage.

Good luck =)

Answer 3

Why are you so worried about it?

Are you a happy person? Are you confident in yourself? If the answers to both of these questions are, "Yes," then you shouldn't worry about what others think of you. I'm guessing, though, that in asking many of the questions you asked, the answer to the confidence part is, "No."

Are you a perv if you masturbate? No. (Every now and then, I do, too.)

If you get turned on having women watch you play with yourself, does that make you a perv? No, as long as the woman on the other end wants to see you do it. It would definitely be perverted to do it in front of someone who doesn't want nor expect it.

Is masturbation better than being gay? It is if you're not gay... it isn't if you are. What's best, in my opinion, is a comfortable relationship, whether straight or gay. If you and your web-partner du jour are both happy, you've nothing to worry about.

Have fun and stay safe.

Answer 4

That is a very good question. Most girls masturbate on cam and no other girls think they're pervs. I don't blame you for doing what you're doing as long as it's not with someone who doesn't want to see it. If someone just pops up and asks me if i want to view their cam i have to know them first and ask if they have their clothes on. If females don't ask at least those 2 questions they're asking for it themselves and they have no right calling another person a perv. What do people think those "bots" are doing? Nobody calls them pervs. I guess it's different between male and female. To tell you the honest truth I don't see any difference. Hope that helps you out.

Answer 5

Alot of people would go ahead and say that you were a perve. But 95% of those people probably do it themselves or wish to, and are ashamed to say it. Masturbation isnt considered an "offensive" thing anymore. Sex shows even say it is perfectly healthy to do so. I believe a perv is smeone who is out of control and says rude things to women and make rude hand gestures and touch women when it is not invited. Masturbating is not something i consider being perverted. I Being a female do it too. Some women like to watch men "get off" so the **** what. Have fun, more power to ya. Yes it is better than being gay. so have fun . And see you are being extremely safe. Best kind of birth control ever. Good luck on finding that special someone one day!!

Answer 6

You are right for your first comment. If you masturbate you are not a perv, masturbating is not a sin. As long as you are not hurting anyone or breaking the law, if you get turned on by letting a consenting adult watch you masturbate and you are of age to be putting yourself out there on cam, then I don't think you are a perv. Theres nothing wrong with what you are saying...don't be so hard on yourself!

Answer 7

Well since like the dawn of time, the male half of the humankind has always expected the female half to be all pristine or whatever. Maybe it links back to the story of Adam and Eve (whether it's true or not), and women were expected to be less open with their sexual.. whatevers in compensation for Eve's mess-up. And since the dawn of time, women have always been expected to just shut up and wipe their man's behind, so it's just always been like that in society. So when us chicks tease and "act all innocent", it's because our mothers or simply society taught us to be that way because it's expected (although society can just shut up and kiss my middle finger).
Anyway, it seems like you're caring a little too much about what other people think of what you're doing to your own body. Naturally if you're masturbating as you're driving down the street and just showing everybody, people are going to think you need to control yourself a little bit.

However, I don't know why you're going on about "If i am a loser and I cant get any, what is wrong with trying to have a women watch me masturbate? Isn't that better than being gay?", because HAVE FUN MASTURBATING while the rest of the gay world is getting laid.

Answer 8

I don't know who called you a perv......but you seem to be normal. But don't get upset because some people might think you are perv....that's there opinion it does not have to be true. Maybe the part about letting a woman watch you by cam.....can a woman watch you in person.? I was just wondering. Some women get a turn on by personally viewing.

Answer 9

I think you're overly-concerned as to what everyone thinks of you... Lemme ask you this: Suppose all those "normal" people out "there" think you aren't, will it make any difference...? The bottom line is this: Love involves risk. Sex (w/another) involves risk. Relationships involve risk. TRUST and FORGIVENESS are the currency of relationships. Orgasms are fun, to be sure, but love shared is ALWAYS and IN EVERY WAY BETTER...! Name-calling is just a way people label people - for better or worse... Google masturbation and you'll find out "Everybody does it...!" So, I guess we're all just normal pervs, huh...?

Answer 10

you need to find women who don't think it is perverted. women that do consider what you are doing on cam exhibitionism and don't want to see it and call you a perv. there is nothing wrong with masterbating, as long as it does not consume your life. i mean, if your whole day is planned around when you have to masterbate, then you many healthy sexual tendencies.