I like this guy alot but i heard he likes someone else should i still try to talk to him and flirt with ?
2006-06-28 11:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by pleasentlybeautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why waste your time on someone who wants some one else? You don't deserve to be a second choice, you want to be, and deserve to be someones first choice to be with.
2006-06-28 12:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! He's just not that into you. You should in no way persist anything with a guy that isn't business related (Ha!).
If a man wants you
Nothing will keep him away
But if he doesn't
Then nothing can make him stay.
A little stanza I like to say to remind myself of that. There is no one worth playing second fiddle for and that is just what you'll be doing if you get with this guy. If you are constantly around this guy and he has never approached you in any way, not even as a friend, then let it go and take your fine self on to the next. Another piece of advice, make sure you would date yourself if you were a guy... that means be everything you can be before you start worrying about what guys think of you.
2006-06-28 12:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by caramichi65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his shoes:
You are him, and you like someone else, but someone else likes you; what would you do if the other person hit/flirt on you?
Would you ignore them and pursue your own crush or would you ignore your crush and pursue the person that has a crush on you?
After you answer that question to yourself, how do you think your crush would react and would he pursue his crush or you?
Or maybe he'd pursue both in which case you'd have an unfaithful boyfriend. Would you want that?
This is all assuming that the person who told you he likes someone else knows what they're talking about. Maybe they made that up becuase they like him or maybe they misunderstood something. How well do you know this person? Would they make up a lie to have the boy to themself?
No one can answer this/these question(s) for you, you have to answer it/them yourself.
2006-06-28 12:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by RobertStrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE, if u dont then ur just giving up, if u let him like som1 else then he will begin to lose attention of the real world aka u, so flirt, if u dont then eventually the girl he likes is going to accept him so get to him b4 she does!♥
2006-06-28 12:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by paige_squirrel_goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not if your just talking. and if your doing more then that and maybe it could get serious ask him. being up front and honest is what the world is lacking. no one seems to want to communicate anymore. maybe that is why the divorce rate is so high. if you really like him then this situation deserves the time to just straight up and ask him are you all seeing other ppl and if he says yes then be sure he is not a liar.
2006-06-28 12:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, he obviousy wants someone else, dont waste your time, cause he will up and leave you for his crush first chance he gets
2006-06-28 11:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rafxsat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...if you like batting "zero", if you know what I mean. Why would you want someone who doesn't want you back? Isn't that moronic? Or is it that you just like doors slammed into your face?
2006-06-28 11:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because you will always wonder if he really wants to be with you or if he is there because he could not be with the other person
2006-06-28 11:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by spyder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats a bad idea,just move on and the right guy will come along
2006-06-28 11:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if he likes someone else let them date and u find someone new
2006-06-28 11:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋