ok i have a problem like a big one. my ex is going around telling everyone that i'm pregnant. when i hadn't slept with him. he has done things like wet himself and i sat on his lap or he touched me after but i thought you could only get pregnant by intercourse. and having clothes on makes it a little bit diffcult. plus being on the monthly complicates it more. i had twins just a month before so i know how babies come about and all. but here is the thing that i truly need help on. how do i get him to stop spreading and telling everyone that i'm pregnant again. when i'm not. i willingly tell anyone when they ask me when i'm ready to have my girl and honestly i want to wait till i'm married to have my next one. but this rumor is making me look like i'm such a slut. considering that he isn't the father of my twins. i'm sick of people asking me when i'm due and stuff. how do i totally make it stop. is there anything that i can do? i perosnally don't think that what he is doing is right
2006-06-28 11:54:14 · 14 answers · asked by short.lil_momma 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
This has happened to me before. My boyfried went around tellin people I was pregnant and I wasnt. But neways what you should do go to him and talk to him about it. You should tell your ex that you are not pregnant, and that you would appreciate it if he doesnt tell everyone in the world that you are pregnant. If he doesnt get the point after you try talking to him reasonablly, tell him it makes him look like a dumb booty that your not going to get bigger cuz your not pregnant. If that fails get a good male friend or boyfreind to talk some sense into him. If all else fails start telling people that you are not pregnant, and that he is being a complete jerk, and just ignore it. Dont let him botha you, You also need to cut all ties off from him, and just move on with your life. Good luck and i hope he quits.
2006-06-28 12:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a prego test a post the results everywhere he has tainted your name. Hes an ex and for a good reason. Tell people you cant be prego with his kid one because his thing was too small to produce sperm and two you never had intercourse. Keep your head up he is mad and this is his way to get back at you. Or tell them yes i am due and that dead beat wont pay for nothing turn the tables. Best of luck with those twins
2006-06-28 12:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a moron. You don't need to defend yourself - in nine months when no baby is born, everyone will know that he lied. If you feel like you have to say something, then just tell them that you CAN'T be pregnant yet because you're breastfeeding the twins. Breastfeeding reduces the ability of many women to become pregnant again in the months after they give birth.
2006-06-28 12:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a disgusting scumbag. I'm glad you are done with him.
Start by telling him you've talked to a lawyer and if he doesn't stop, he will be sued for deframation of character. When people ask when you are due, ask them, why would you think I'm pregnant. When they say he told them, just fib a bit and tell them you are suing him and would they be willing to testify. Let the word get back to him. Turn the tables on him so to speak.
Are you in with his mom? Call her, tell her what you know. If you can get her on your side, he is as good as done!
I hope you get this resolved...what a jerk, this guy needs to learn a serious lesson!
2006-06-28 12:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by barefeet561 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 08:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by leng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling people it is not true, and if you aren't people will realize it when you don't have a tummy. As for him, if he is your ex, why are you still hanging around him? Sounds like he's trying to slander you. Tell him to stop or you will sue him for slander or defamation of character, and file a restraining order to make him stay away from you. Take control of your life, girl.
2006-06-28 12:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not pregnant. Ask him to stop telling people. I would not worry about rumours, you didn't start it. Tell your friends to ask your ex about you being pregnat because it is news to you. It does not make you look bad, he looks bad for telling others you are pregnant. So, smile and go on with your life.
2006-06-28 12:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by CathyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you have more things to worry about like them twins. tell those people to listen to you or take it as it is you r not having a baby mainly by a person that you don't sleep with. and if they will not listen tell them to mind their own business. think about your babies not some dummies or people that just want something to talk about. good luck
2006-06-28 12:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by angela h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you care what he says when 9 months roll around and no baby everyone will know undoubtedly that he is a f-ing liar!
2006-06-28 12:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just laugh when people ask. Say something like, oh you must have talked to my ex. Im not sure why he started that rumor, then move on.
2006-06-28 12:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by vacca33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋