im average good looking but in my whole life i never gotten a girlfriend WHY?????
2006-06-28 10:57:47 · 20 answers · asked by ?????? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you asked anyone out? Most of the times it is up to the guy to make the first move.. to you at least let a girl know that you are into her?? Maybe ask someone why they think... someone who actually knows you maybe they can help.
Also if a girl thinks of you as just a Friend or like a brother that can put a damper on the whole dating thing.. also make sure you have good hygiene... can be fun yet mature or at least act your age... are extra polite but not too much.. sometimes it can be a fine line with girls... but each are different, just like a finger print.
2006-06-28 11:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are afraid of rejection. well -- as the saying goes "try and try until you suceed"
and also you could be going after the wrong women. each woman have different tastes in men.
usually, what YOU look for in the opposite sex reflects your personality or the other way round. look for your female counterpart. what is your personality? maybe that'll help you find someone who share the same interests and passion -- and that usually is very helpful.
don't come off as too desperate -- nobody wants that
don't be too shy either -- then they would not come up to you.
when you are targeting your "prey" -- look at it as if you're just going to be friends. don't immediately think "romance potential" think of it as a plant, that if watered correctly, it will bloom into a beautiful flower (don't think of this in a sexual way). bottom line: take your time to get to know the girl first. don't rush her into anything.
the safest way to go is to just be yourself (ew cheesy) girls fall for guys who are average but very nice -- be the one who will never break their hearts, and you will eventually win their hearts.
good luck!
2006-06-28 11:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look back at your past. Have you given yourself the opportunities to meet girls?? For example, have you gone out with friends and met new people...if you haven't I suggest you should...don't be a hermit. Also, have you tried volunteering or joining clubs...you can meet girls there too..
Another reason may be that you are not asking out girls....or are too picky. Or..it could be that you just don't have any luck or found a girl you are compatible with..just keep getting out there..and I think you find someone.
2006-06-28 11:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very complicated question and may require a little more information than you are willing to give strangers on the internet. You might be a little preoccupied with looks and unwilling to delve further into the person--including yourself.
2006-06-28 11:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by girlfriday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you again? Anyways, I think girls like comfident men. If you look like you are confident about yourself and don't act like you are desperate, girls will come to you. And I find that girls like compliment not pick up lines. You can tell how the color of their dress really look great on them but do not try to tell how beautiful they are. Hope this help.
2006-06-28 11:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kent N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because instead of putting yourself out there, you sitting at home online wondering why. You need to take some chances man, takes some risks, get rejected, and keep trying. theres a girl for every guy, you just need to find her.
2006-06-28 11:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rafxsat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't asked any girl out you might think your average but maybe your not average to the girls around you .
2006-06-28 11:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by funnygirltobewith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get one, give it time, and when u do, I'm sure u'll appreciate her since u've waited for so long. Or, atleast I hope u will, hopefully u won't get with her, receive what she's willling to give u and dump her like a bad habit.
2006-06-28 11:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a big tip that makes me get hooked on a guy everytime...make them feel like there's nothing more delicate and special in the whole world but them....and whatever you do don't go for more than one girl at a time...there's nothing that ruins that special feeling a guy gives you than finding out he likes someone else
2006-06-28 11:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked a girl out? You can't expect a girl to always come to you. You have to try and try again. Just don't give up. It'll be worth it.
2006-06-28 11:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Gothic_Maiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋