I'm sitting here fu*king bored! I work all week n get a crappy wage @ the end of it. My love lifes Sh*t n my family sucks! Should i just walk in front of a car to see what happens? Maybe i feel like this because i havn't eaten properly since sunday because we have no food in the house and my hair just ain't doing what i want it to do lol ;-)
2006-06-28 10:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, take a deep breath, step back from it all, and count your blessings. I'll bet if you think about it, there's some things to be thankful for, there's worse things than feeling a little hungry, by far...if you've got the use of your limbs, you've got a computer in your home, the lights are on, and you're safe, that's better than a lot of people got it...even if you're feeling bummed out, chances are there's somebody that loves you....love them back!
2006-06-28 10:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you said your family sucks, they might be mad at you right now or just don't agree with the way you live your life. You should feel very lucky that you have any family at all, mine are all dead! That is what really sucks. I also work all week at 2 jobs and still don't make enough for the things I would like to have.
What I am trying to get at is that I was in your shoes once too! What I am about to say is going to sound silly but it worked for me and I have never been happier. I started taking an anti-depressant called Wellbutrin! It works so well. I used to think of killing myself too.....don't you will miss out on too much.
AS cliche as this might sound you are going to have to accept and love the person you are before you will ever have a decent love life. Please don't kill yourself I am sure that someone loves you! If you need to talk about anything email me the address is downsouth9a1231@yahoo.com
2006-06-28 11:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by downsouth9a1231 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Kins... I felt very similar only a few weeks ago, I'm separated from my husband of 4 yrs(been together 9yrs) we have a son and all that is over.
I was so devastated when he told me he didn't love me anymore!!! To the point where I thought I didn't want to live. Luckily I have my son, otherwise who knows what I'd have done!!! Turns out I didn't REALLY love him either, so, now I am getting over him and moving on with my life. Got a new someone special and enjoying it! But at the end of the day, you don't need a man/woman to make you feel complete, the man I had just made me feel incomplete, so I'm better off without him.
If your not happy with your job...Go get a new one! I've worked in a few places I just HATED. I used to cry every night at the thought of having to go in the next morning! But now I've got myself a job doing something I like and I'm happier. If your not happy only you have the power to change it, and suicide is never the answer.
I'm SURE you have some family that love you dearly and think how devastated they'd be without you. If you feel so bad speak to someone, get some medication, it's not nice feeling that way but medication CAN and WILL help. If you need to chat contact me!
Take care
Love D*
2006-06-28 11:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my love life's shite too, my family and friends have mostly fallen out and I'm currently volunteering - that's working 40 hours per week and not getting paid other than petrol money.
I got dismissed from my last job as I was too slow, my cat of 16 years died last year, and my Dad nearly died and was in intensive care just before Christmas last year.
So if anyone should feel like walking out in front of a car these past 6 months it should be me!
If your job's getting you down, is there any way you can get yourself a better one?
And get up early and go treat yourself to a nice all day breakfast at a cafe tomorrow morning for breakfast or something - make you feel much better!
2006-06-28 11:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by badgerbadger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I feel that way too sometimes. My love life is nonexistant 4 now and my family doesn't care, and my job is not well paying... and my diet is poor. like I wrote one time: ....I'm angry and I'm lonely and I'm dying for attention....
Don't walk in front of a car though.
Do whatever you need to, to keep yourself alive.... like they say, "don't let the bastards get you down"
In psychology class they called it suicidal ideation and most all people feel it once in a while. Especially creative, artistic type of people. If you are a reader you might try reading a book called "feeling good" it's not as hokey as the title sounds. There are also a lot of resourses online for people who have some situational depression.
I wish I had a better answer than this.
2006-06-28 11:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kins, Im not going to tell you my sad story because I know you will have many more to read, but I just hope you would be able to see that no matter how bad your situation is (or may seem) there is always someone worse off than you are and they are still pressing on.
Get up and shake yourself from the dust of despair, dont get weighed down by self pity. There is probably something waiting for you just at the corner so be patient and brace yourself. No one is problem free, come on, get on your feet and pull yourself together now!
2006-06-28 11:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand, but at least you have a job, lol. I dont have a car to get to work with and I live in the middle of nowhere! No, dont jump in front of a car just to see what happens. I could tell you what would happen but its bloody. Life gets better at sometime or the other. Just got to wait for that moment.
2006-06-28 10:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Judy Kick80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point of Living is to carry on the human Race.
Listen life has its ups and downs, I'm on a down my self at the moment I haven't got a job and I'm skint at least you have one. My family life aint too hot either. You just gotta look forward to the future an aim for things youv always wanted to do.
2006-06-28 11:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ste444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that life sucks too...big time. but at least things might change for you, i am in a wheelchair for life, at least you can have the freedom to do what you want. i haven't been on a date for over a year now since my last gf, at least you still have a chance to find a love life. trust me, life can still get better for u, f anyone should think about this question, i am way more qualify then you are...enjoy what you have, good luck.
2006-06-28 11:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by rt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww now dont u stress,i get up every morning knowing my life could be so much worse.now u get suttin down ur neck light some candles and soak in a hot bath.Forget everything thats messin u up for just a few moments its ur time now!x
2006-06-28 11:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋