Or should I wait for him to call me first??
2006-06-28 10:50:37 · 17 answers · asked by Miss C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually the guy calls right?
if he hasn't called since monday there are a couple of reasons why
a. he doesn't like you and didn't enjoy the first date
b. he had an emergency
c. he is scared and nervous that you probably didn't like him so he won't call
d. he is waiting for you to call
if you like him a lot them ask him out but if you are afraid is the guy like i mentioned in letter c. then don't ask him out becuase that will be very bad in future dates. he is not a man but a coward
THINK ABOUT IT
THEN CALL IF YOU LIKE HIM A LOT
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-28 10:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few more days. You don't want to seem desperate and guys usually wait about 4 days to call after a date anyhow.
2006-06-28 17:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please have some patience. I dont know how old you are, but take it from me, I KNOW it is torture to wait for a guy to call you (it is ONLY wednesday yo know!) And sadly, guys like to play this game of pretending they are not so interested. But you REALLY have to play it right back. Calling him puts HIM in control, like he's all "yeah, I'm so great, she's begging for it!" You have to make him think you've got PLENTY of other things to do and you are not just sitting around, desperately waiting for his call (even if you are!!) Guys admire slef-esteem and independence and calling Him makes you look desperate and clingy.
2006-06-28 17:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy wants to go out with you again, he will ask you..So you 'd better wait
2006-06-28 17:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by 24_m_gr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy you should call him but if you dont just wait for him to call you .
2006-06-28 17:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by funnygirltobewith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monday was a couple days ago...it's not like you're calling him the next day! I think you should be able to call if you feel like it.
2006-06-28 17:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don;t wait if you think Monday went o.k then you should take the initiative to ask him out. If he rejects you move on, you won't have to wait long.
2006-06-28 17:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
Men should be the agressors. I would say that it is after the second or third date, but let him show interest after the first...Spend your time things that make you happy...he is. If he's interested, he'll call. You don't want to seem needy or fanatical. Just my take...
2006-06-28 17:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Glynis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him defiantly. You already broke the ice by going out.
2006-06-28 17:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wait for him call me maybe he don't want go out with u
2006-06-28 17:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by rnd1938 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋