I like girls, but have never done nything (im 16). But I think about being with other guys alot. I want to have sex this summer--should i try with boy or girl first?
2006-06-28 10:46:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jay J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL - I wont get pregnant cuz im a guy--and i look at lots of porn online...i love coks.
2006-06-28 10:58:27 · update #1
Stay with girls, mate. If you decide to go with guys, there will be problems with society sooner and later. You will encounter so much more opposition as an open bisexual, because once you're with a guy, you're gay, period.
There is no in between with male sexuality. Do or do not, there is no try. Either you're straight or you're not, homosexual- means you are attracted to those of the same sex. Once you're with a guy, that makes you gay.
In looking for a job, in finding friends, in dealing with family and relatives, in getting married, for the rest of your life in general, you will have problems that could have been avoided if you never went with a guy.
Consider yourself lucky, you have the choice not to lust for men, some people don't. Some guys just can't look at women that way and are not accepted by so many different groups of people.
Bisexual doesn't exist... it's used in defense of homosexual people, in trying to say that they're not "totally" gay and that they like the opposite sex, too.
Anyone with anything against gays will not accept that and reject homosexuality.
Save yourself the trouble of going through a great deal of unnecessary pain and stress.
This is not a matter of following your heart, (you're not in love), it's about following your dick; but don't let your dick get you into unneeded trouble
Gurls will give you all the trouble you can handle; a future in America is easier for heterosexuals.
Happy to be of assistance.
2006-06-29 08:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some kind of pressure to have sex. You should not feel pressure to have sex. Sex should happen naturally thats when it's best. does not really matter who and when you should do it. Its about feeling comfortable with the person you are doing it with. I did not plan my first time. It was with a girl friend in high school. We were alone and started making out and things happened from there. Sometimes letting nature takes its course can be very rewarding.
2006-06-28 18:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kent N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will better give you the answer on this question. What I can say confidently though is just because you try intimacy with someone of the same sex one or two times does NOT make you gay or bisexual.
Sexual expermentation is a normal part of personal evolution.
Strict focus on protection against AIDS or other STD's is key, though, regardless of which sex you become intimate with.
2006-07-01 05:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it with whoever who are comfortable with. I am bisexual myself and I had sex with a boy first. But you are young and it is perfectly normal to be thinking and wondering what it would be like with another male. In the end you may decide that men just arent for you, but you wont know until you try. Just go with whoever who are comfortable with and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-28 17:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Judy Kick80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get you some porn and watch guy and guy action. Then watch girl on guy action. Decide which one turns you on the most then be like Nike and "Just Do It", and BOOM....that's the answer to your question! : )
2006-06-28 17:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably go with a girl first to see if you really like it.
2006-06-28 17:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gothic_Maiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try with a girl first if you dont like it then you'd know that youre more then just bisexual.
2006-06-28 17:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋