ok so me and my girlfriend broke up bc well her parents made her. But enyway my ex has been kinda meen to me and angry at me lately and its hurting me. But now im over her. The thing is before me and my ex got together her best friend liked me also.( we are all 14) and her and my ex fought over me and in the end the other girl didnt want to risk the friendship over it so let my ex have me. Now at the time i liked both of those girls but they decided who id have (they wouldnt listen to me lol) so i got my EX. Now i think i once again have feelings for that other girl and weve been talking alot lately and im not shur wether or not she has feelings for me but shes been calling me and talking and stuff which she never did before and she asked me who i like and i said i dno who do u like and she said this boy i know im not suposed to but would say no more. so then i asked her if she wanted to hang sometime and she said my EX would get mad at her and think we like each other.lookattitlefor?
2006-06-28 10:15:47 · 28 answers · asked by Joe K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
got bored reading the Extra details, and fell asleep yawn
boring
2006-06-28 10:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by mysps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, be a man. How can you let two girls decide who your girlfriend will be? Did they roll the dice or draw straws? Run, not walk, from both of them. I don't even know you and I know that you are better than that.
This is a sick little game that you are caught in the middle of...and trust me, you won't end up the winner.
Second, never date someone your own age. At 14, you should be looking at 15 or 16 year olds.
Finally, if you do hook up with the best friend, I can assure you it won't last. That girl will have to decide between you and her friend...and guess what...you lose again.
You've just been handed a wonderful opportunity to branch out, reinvent yourself, and adventure into new territories. Be a man...rise to the occasion.
2006-06-28 17:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but i think you should take a break from relationships just for a little. ask yourself why you want to be with this girl? besides the fact that you like her, think about some other reasons. If you like her start out with being friends. Friendships are usually better at this age. and as for your ex, talk to her and ask her what her problem is. don't be defensive just ask nicely. or maybe you can ask to meet her somewhere and just talk and resolve your issues. tell her how you feel, and maybe she'll stop maltreating you.
2006-06-28 17:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think that you should just continue being friends with her. She most likely does like you, but you know that she's gonna hesitate on the whole situation b/c of your ex and her being friends. Your too young to be going through relationship problems already. Keep talking to her and being her friend and if you end up with her then you do but if you dont then at least you know that you have a new friend.. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-06-28 17:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart....u did add a few too many details but that's ok i don't think it was boring....anyway in my oppinion the boy that she's not supposed to like is you...i think it's an 85% chance anyway that it's you...i was 14 once and all the phone calls and the hangin out and talking....that's just a way to spend more time with you....but she doesn't want to tell you because of the rejection and problems from last time....i think you should just bring it up and let here know how you feel aqbout her....by here flowers or something to let her know
2006-06-28 17:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by jenni jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok grow up if ur gonna start ur dating experiences like this u r in for some trouble..go out with the girl, tell her u like her and ur ex is just out of luck..why u tryin to make ur ex happy still ..she dumped u, weither her parents made her or not..and u said she was hurting u ..how physically? if thats true hun she needs theropy..so take a chance n go out with this girl..if it last it last, but u will have tons of girls b4 ur 18 so ..have fun for now..take a chance. ull neva know til u try. and trust me if they r still friends and this girl u like cares so much bout what her friends thinks why is she calling u..hum maybe bc she dont really care what her friend thinks..n she does like u..they will get ova it n still be friends even if it dont work with u 2 trust me.. i know everything..email me at yahoo dot com this id if u want more insites on life n what to do.
2006-06-28 17:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'm a girl and I remember these days (young love). I would always perfer the friendship of my girlfriends than the guy. Mainly b/c when you think about it... when you're 14 you date for fun not for the love of your life or someone to marry, so the fun times with my girlfriends weren't worth losing for a boy. I think either this girl likes you or she just like the attention she gets from you... which seems to be the case, I think you she likes the fact that you like her and that her friend likes you too... so I guess just have fun with it ....
2006-06-28 17:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by SiLLy-mE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant pressure your ex's friend to do anything. She needs to decide what is more important here, Friendship, or a relationship. I hate to tell u this, cause u seem a nice person and everything, but I think ur fighting a losing battle. Sorry :(
2006-06-28 17:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still likes you and probably felt like she was being a good friend not the let a boy come between the friendship and letting her friend have you. You have yourself in a predicament if you all continue to be immature about your feelings. You cannot expect anything good to come out of it if you are not going to be loyal to one and also lay back lazily as they pass you around. You are enjoying your ego boost but you may have to let them both go; it may be fun now but you are all sacrificing each others respect.
2006-06-28 17:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by dogooder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude walk away there are many fish in the sea don't stick around with the friend of your Ex. why do you ask, whats gonna happen when you and her friend break up then you have two angry ladies at you that's on the verge of suicide buddy find a new girl with as little affiliation with the first two for your own good dude
2006-06-28 17:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man, you are too young to be all twisted up over this thing. If you have to date, then pick a young lady that has as much sense as a 14 year old can have. these two you are dealing with now sound goofy.
2006-06-28 17:22:56 · answer #11 · answered by upos1966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋