2006-06-28 09:50:40 · 17 answers · asked by megan c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start a friendship and get to know him. if you already know each other and you want him then just come out and ask.
personally i like the direct approach - someone likes me or wants to get to know me. I hate the beating about the bush just jump in.
2006-06-28 09:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hi you don't have to look despeate to get a guy! Try to form a friendship with the guy first, you know get to know about him and stuff. Then when you think that you really like him you know he fits your bill well,if he does'ent tell you that he is intrested in you more than a friend then you tell him. If he is not intrested in you that way then then it is best if you move on but you can still be friends if you are comfortable with it. Don't act all desperate and cheap to get a guy because he will think less of you. Hope this helped!
2006-06-28 10:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are no different that you women out there, when it comes to forming a meaningful relationship. Both of us wish to be treated with respect and need to be loved. It is the best policy to just be yourself, and let him know you are interested in being friends, and if it turns into something else....great for both of you!!!
Huggs and Kisses,
Lonnie
2006-06-28 09:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't BE desperate. Be happy with who you are, and your life in general. When you're kewl with being single and independent, is when you're more likely to meet someone who'll be a good match. Don't chase guys...just be you and they'll take notice!
2006-06-28 09:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know the guy first. Have a basic friendship...but don't let it get too far..because he will think of you as only a friend. Once you know him somewhat and like him, you could ask him out if you want...or you could flirt with him.
2006-06-28 11:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try these things:
1. Be meticulously groomed
2. Be smart
3. Smile
4. Circulate - Go to the library, malls, social gatherings, parties, be available
5. Let your friends know you are available
6. Don't feel or act desperate
Before you know it, the men will be after you....
2006-06-28 09:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only live once and its such a short life. if you want something go get it who cares what others might think. really life is way to short. the next time you see him smile and give him a light touch on the hand or somewhere non sexual. he'll get the vibe.
2006-06-28 09:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by davimich1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy your single times! If you are enjoying yourself, and having a great time, guys will definetly go "hey there's a girl that can hang and would be fun to hang with."
2006-06-28 09:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by funandfancyfree3232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By just relaxin and showin the guy you down to hang but after a while he will start to dig u and u will have him sprung pimpin. Trust me it always works.
2006-06-28 09:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a little flirtatious with him. Dont go over board. Let him know you like him and let him know you are interested but dont act like a love sick, boy-crazy little girl. Good luck.
2006-06-28 09:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋