Me and my boyfriend been having problems lately but the guy that I am crushing on is a loser he has no job hes younger then me and he uses drugs I am so confused help!!
2006-06-28 09:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by pleasentlybeautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Throughout your life you will always have feelings here and there for someone. Just because those feeling are there does not mean you have to act on them.
Stay away from this new guy. If your boyfriend is a good man and you cheat on him with a loser it will be the worst mistake of your life!
2006-06-28 09:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tynnkitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit and think about what you want in a real man. If you're crushing on a loser because you're angry with your b/f, you are not ready for a serious relationship. Real women take the time to find out what will resolve the problems with their other half, so things will be better again, not just start looking for a replacement.
2006-06-28 09:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any way you would possibly want to be speaking marriage with someone after courting them for below a three hundred and sixty 5 days. it really is the first aspect i favor to assert. you're contained in the course of a complicated chemical bombardment that makes it very difficult to imagine for the first 3 hundred and sixty 5 days or 2 you're with someone. As to why you're having thoughts for someone else? per chance you're polyamorous. Poly human beings comprehend that they'd love diverse human beings in a romantic way without delay. My husband and that i are poly. this is extra usually than not worked for us for 10 years now. Polyamory isn't for each individual. It takes adulthood and consistent communication with each individual in contact. if you're having romantic thoughts for 2 men without delay, notwithstanding, you at the instantaneous are not a freak. i'd propose that you carry out slightly interpreting on poly. purely to work out if it suits the way you experience in any respect. if so, then you may be poly. If no longer, then you may evaluate breaking apart including your contemporary boyfriend and being unmarried for a lengthy time period, to verify out who you and what you extremely favor out of a spouse. good success!
2016-11-29 22:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by baltrip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been a lil disloyal but dont go any further then a crush, especially with a guy who is a loser. If you feel you 2 need time apart take some time for yourself and dont jump right into a relationship especially if it might turnout to be worse then your recent one. Good luck
2006-06-28 09:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by think_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may just be getting tired of your boyfriend. Why would you 'have feelings' for someone who you term as a loser? Maybe it's time to step back from your boyfriend and examine how you feel about that relationship...it may be time to move on (but not to 'loser' guy).
2006-06-28 09:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always gonna find other guys attractive. The only thing you have to consider is are your feelings for your BF stronger than your urges. And if so can you contril those urges. Besides this other guy sounds like bad news do yourself a favor and dont get caught up in that. Good luck.
2006-06-28 09:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if you are having feelings for someone else than it is not meant to be, you are wasting your time, as for the person you are having feelings for, just have fun with it, don't get serious, and don't do the drugs.
2006-06-28 09:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by lisa_in_ok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r unfaithful. the guy who is loser and use drug is no good. just stay wt ur boyfriend who u love and try talking out ur problem. good luck!!
2006-06-28 09:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by kristena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, tell him how you feel. If you you truly love your boyfriend then he is worth the effort.
and get rid of the joker at least until you and your boyfriend figure things out.
2006-06-28 09:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by spiderman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell your boy friend but before you do if i was you i would make up my mind who you want then tell the other one to hit the road my husband had affair with my best friend and i gave him a choice i still have him she hit the road but we don't have sex like we did before some time's i think he made the wrong choice
2006-06-28 09:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by louann w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋