2006-06-28 09:18:54 · 79 answers · asked by DAVID D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
paying for sex is never okay
2006-06-28 09:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just an opinion of mine, but paying for sex is nobodies business. If you are at least 18 your sex life is nobodies business. If the person you are paying is willing to perform, then there are no laws to break. The real question your asking is how do you deal with your own guilt of having to pay for sex? I suggest a lil quality time with yourself, and wait until you meet the right person.
2006-06-28 09:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're no longer a minor....if you want to pay for it and take the risks associated with that, it's your choice. Just remember it is illegal 'most everywhere in this country, and you're still at risk of STD's and getting the woman pregnant (just as if you weren't a cash paying customer). Upside of paying for it is you're less likely to end up having to deal with the emotional side of sex, which generally will affect females your age.
2006-06-28 09:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some countries, paying for sex is not just 'ok' it is perfectly legal and acceptable. it is really a matter of how you feel about it.If it isn't against your own personal standards and if you are single(no wife) by law, then you are free to to what is legal. But you need to understand what the after affects can to do you both mentally and physically, so protect yourself in these areas before you go through with it , IF you go through with it.
2006-06-28 09:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Stacyesd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18 you should not have to pay for sex.... plenty of older ladies that need a good lay and you could probably do with a little more experience.
Enjoy!
2006-06-28 09:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying for sex is the sign of a trick
real men dont pay for sex
2006-06-28 09:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't actually pay for sex but you take them out to dinner, the movies and pay bills for the rest of your life, oh, and then you may get some sex in between.
2006-06-28 09:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by JazzyJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it sounds like old school and like a cliche, but save yourself for your wedding night. Never pay for sex. Find a good woman and marry her. Have a happy marriage. The more women you are with, the more chances of catching something you will have.
2006-06-28 09:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by pappa_15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do you mean by "okay"? Is it socially acceptable? No, not at any age. Paying for sex is trashy and demeaning for you and for the person you are paying... if you are not with someone you love right now, just don't have sex... You won't die... I promise... sex is much better when it's with someone you love.
2006-06-28 09:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the funds, don't scrimp on a condom. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you don't wind up too crass with women you eventually date from dealing with women who refuse you intimacy.
One of the major aspects of dating is learning the difference between giving a woman intimacy, receiving it and knowing the difference between it and sex.
Prostitutes will give you sex, but do not like intimacy because it affects the repetitive nature of what they do. What you are receiving from them is a shell of what to expect from someone who does have feelings for you. But if you can become satisfied with the act and the act alone - go for it.
2006-06-28 09:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying for sex is never okay you should get it for free
2006-06-28 09:22:12 · answer #11 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋