i havent spoken to my x for about 3 weeks then i decided to call her to talk for like 5 minutes ( when we talk the convo will go on for 2 hours) but i dont want to invest too much of my time to her
when i call she was on the other line with someone else and drop that call to talk to me we talk for 15 because 10 minutes was spent answering her questions of why i dont contact her as much via email or phone and when will be the next time i will call her, after too many questions i hang up on her she call me back and ask me what happen then she continue to carry on convo so i was like gotta to go i told her if she wants me to call her she needs to call me too she was like i m going to start callin u but since our convo last week she hasnt ii call her saturday n she return my call on sunday we spoke for 2 hours i think in that convo she told me her lifestory. but still she hasnt call me on her own
why is that ???? and why does she pretend that she is single?
2006-06-28 09:15:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u think it a game to keep me on string, to see if i still care for her that why she ask me to call her i hate these games why should i do without putting pressure on her
2006-06-28 09:20:38 · update #1
She still wants you. Trust me. If she didn't, then she wouldn't ask why u haven't called her.
2006-06-28 09:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's an ex for a reason. It's my firm belief that if you broke up with them once, why waste your time with them again? Seems like she still has the hots for you, so i would let things cool down...and if she's not single and acting like she is....call her out on it!
2006-06-28 09:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does that because she is your ex. They all do that if you continue to keep them in your life. Well, at least all of mine have. I just like to look at it as a good reminder of why they are my exes and I am not with them anymore.
2006-06-28 09:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by scottie2h2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth- you don't contact her because you are no longer a couple. You are not obligated to do so AND you can't move on if she is still number one on your speed dial
2006-06-28 09:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Twinkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably still wants you. i mean, breakups are hard...i guess in your case, shes really showing it. eventually, she'll use a trick that most girls use: making you jealous. lol i use it too on "exes" and it kinda feels good. it makes the other one jealous cuz they dont have u anymore
..does that make sense?
2006-06-29 11:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by TriManDaTopZzZz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously wants you back and is holding on to the realtionship ....as it is not usual to keep in contact on a regular basis with your ex ...unless you have a kid with her and then that's another issue
2006-06-28 09:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz she dont want you, but she wants you to want her, its all psychology, dont call her dude, she sucks. if she does call u, be sure to be the first to say gotta go.
2006-06-28 09:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by REGGIE G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that long jumbled rant is hard to understand, but maybe she just likes you
2006-06-28 09:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by stratdog9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you are suppose to do as an ex - isn't it ?
2006-06-28 09:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by s c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex???honey dont even bother
2006-06-28 09:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by minnie m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋