how would U cope with?

Question

close death in Ur family.. ....................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





sincere answers please.

i feel **** tonight. sorry. i think i will go and get drunk. but plez keep on goin .

yeah I'm off to get so sloshed

I'm gettin sloshed for sadness not 4 happiness. what else do we get pissed 4.

life is damn hard... no moe im pissef ok. goodnighy

Answer 1

!Cry my heart out!

Answer 2

When you have a death of a person who is close to you, try not to grieve the best thing to do is remember all of the good times/good things that that person has done for you or someone else. And know that there in a much better place and that they don't have to deal with the craziness of the world. Also if you believe in prayer,pray and I feel that they can hear you and that they become are guardian angels.

Answer 3

Hmm... well, I've never had anyone close to me in my family die yet, so I'm going to kind of wing it in my answer here.

I'd most likely be extremely upset and mope around for days on end. After thier funeral, I think I'd like to visit their grave often, to get used to the idea that they're no longer in this world.

After a while, I think I'd get over it and try and live my life the way they would have wanted me to, and try and be happy for their sake.

I know that not many people here watch anime, but in the anime Fruits Basket, the main character's mother is dead all throughout the story, and on the one year anniversary of her death, the main character and her friends go and visit the grave and have a picnic in front of it, because they knew that the mother wouldn't want them to be sad and mourn the fact that she was gone. (Long run-on sentence, sorry XD)

Answer 4

Some days you sit and cry, others you sit and mope, others you do anything other than face the facts and on others you sit around with friends and family and reminisce, remembering the good and bad times and having a laugh. And some days you do all these things. It gets easier as time goes by, but speaking as someone who lost his dad 25 years ago when I was 14, it never hurts any less, you just cope with it better.

Good luck, take care. And don't overdo the booze, you'll just feel as sad tomorrow but with a hangover.

Answer 5

You wouldn't, simple. No one is excepted to. i am asked, how did I cope? Truth is you don't. Death in the family is gone alter the way you live your life, whether you like it or not. Truth is to learn t adapt your life to the new circumstances you have been given. Was there ever a life long ambition that theperson close to you had, but had never fulfilled?? Doing something like that can often bring you swpiritually closer to that person.

Hope it helps

xxxxxxx

Answer 6

Drinking is not the way to go,
It makes you feel better at the time but next morning all the unresolved feelings return.
Drinking is only masking the real problem. That you are hurting. Th only way to cope with a death is to go "cold turkey" & cry if you have to, get angry if you must, but always let the real feelings surface. Let it all out. You will feel better.
Ditch that bottle, NOW !

Answer 7

Spend time with your other family members. Don't be afraid to grieve about it. The death of a loved one is not meant to be easy to handle, and you aren't required to "get over it" now or ever. Life will go on, but it takes time to adjust to not having that person around. They will always be in your heart and waiting for you in heaven.

Answer 8

death is always hard to cope with, especially since it is closely related. talk to friends and family about it and if that doesn't help, seek out a counselor, many deal primarily with the aspect of grief after death. I'm sorry you have to go through this and i wish you and your family all the best durring this hard time.

Answer 9

The only thing that I can really recommend through experienceis using the relationship that you have with God to show you what you were suppose to learn from the experience. The answer will show as soon as your heart is open and receptive. You can ask HIM for that too.

Answer 10

Make sure you are surrounded by people that are good family or close friends. Aso, when you are ready, there are support groups out there-you are not alone!

And allow yourself to cry-it heals the soul!

My prayers are with you

Answer 11

Talking about with friends and family. Thats really the best way to cope is by displaying your feelings to other people. Then finding closure when you are ready.