ladies answer this plz
2006-06-28 08:52:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're both in love and you really want sex,why wait.but if need it like animals don't.just if-again- you're in love and will not give up each other.
2006-06-28 08:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by sigmastar _62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many Christians would say that you should wait until marriage. However, that is not what most people do so I will tell you that you should wait until both of you feel you are ready. Sex really complicates things if you haven't discussed it. So I say wait until you two have talked and the both of you feel comfortable enough to handle the after effects of having sex. When talking make sure you discuss, protection, birth control, and what will happen if you slip up. Also make sure you both get tested before doing it.
2006-06-28 15:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by natoya07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your shoes again, I would wait until I get married. Because that would make that night incredible special. If you have sex with her and things don't work out, and then you end up married to someone else then that night will not be as special as it could be. Also, if you were to end up married to her, and you two are having sex already, then there could not be no way to make it as special as it should be.
If I would have known then what I know now.
It is both of you two's decision. Can't really help you out. Just give you some insight on what it could be like.
2006-06-28 15:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends - how old are you both and how long have you been together? I'm guessing you are both young and since you have to ask people if you should wait -- then I think you aren't ready.
I'm not insulting -- but I think you already know the answer or you wouldn't have asked on here. Too many people rush into it - just to get it over with, but you have to really be ready for it. If it is your first time - it should be special. I know that's sappy but I was raped my first time and I will never have that back (I was 12) and of course I wasn't ready for sex much less to be raped - it really F'ed me up - so I think you should wait til you are both ready.
2006-06-28 15:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should u rush into things, just hold out till ur married, that way if she gets pregnant it wil be ok cas u guys will be together, if u were really ready then u wont be asking this question, there is nothing worng in waiitng its even better to wait till u guys are married. Love does not equal sex.
2006-06-28 15:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by eudora11207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from this question I can tell you are both not ready to have sex or you wouldn't be asking this... Talk about the consequences from having sex, the precautions you two will do to avoid std's and pregnancy.... And once you folks have understood the positives and negatives, then go for it and enjoy it!
2006-06-28 15:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by WoWChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for, life is short, make the most of it.Just dont forget to condomise,or else life can become even shorter.Go on my brother.
2006-06-28 15:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by GHOST 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait make sure your relationship is solid. This way if you are bad in bed she will still love you.
2006-06-28 16:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by CherrieMartini69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing how long have you guy been dating if it is a long time then go of it but make sure you both want to and you guy are really for what happen after if it Didi's OK
2006-06-28 16:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u asking a question like this on here so if you have to ask no dont have sex you cant handle the buzz
2006-06-28 15:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by thumper3755 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋