this guy i like teases me, but i think it's in a good way. he says stuff like "gosh, what r u thinking!" but he smiles when he says it. it makes me smile and i don't feel bad! he's extra nice to me when he's not around his friends. i just met him this month in summer band. he flirts and i flirt back.what else can i do?
2006-06-28 08:45:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is so cool!
The same thing happened with me and my crush
and now we cant stand one moment apart!!
That is totaly flirting, and like
yhea!!
Its normal for him to be nicer around you when his guys arent there, cause you know.. They got to be cool and all..... Dont take it personaly.
You should ask him out, or send little hints, you know, give him signals for him to ask you out.
Try it.
The rewards are great.
Good Luck.
2006-06-28 08:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just a type of flirting. I sat by a guy that I kinda liked this previous school year and we constantly teased each other. It's a good sign, unless he starts being mean.
2006-06-28 08:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i was in a situation like this.... he teased me.... but when he wasn't around his friends he was so sweet. It never worked out with us. We went out off and on 4 like 2 years.
But if you think this guy is especially sweet, then i think you should keep in touch with him, but don't go to far. If everything takes course, then definately he should ask you out. But if he doesn't... and you feel the time is write, then you make the first move.
Best Wishes
2006-06-28 08:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok what you are doing, dont sound like this is a "guy". since you said in summer band---sounds like teenagers just flirting with each other to see how the other one thinks of the other. so whether to ask out or not.
maybe ask him to get ice cream with friends. keep as group or if you feel safe enough (and your mom approves) then just the 2 of you get ice cream or something little.
2006-06-28 08:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't treat you the same way around his friends as he does when you two are alone then he isn't worth your time because he isn't really interested in you for a serious relationship. He probably likes you but that is about the extent of it at this point.
2006-06-28 08:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like youre already doing what you need to do; flirting. Keep it up. I'm not sure how cool it is that he's only nice to you when his friends aren't around. I guess that's normal if youre like in jr. high.
2006-06-28 08:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by kylanusoftly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to do something with him, then i would ask him before he moves on to someone else, some guys dont like being the first one to always make a move, sometimes they want us to make the move, so make it! the worst that can happen is that he will say no, and you will just be friends, the best is dating eachother, just go for it why dont cha! good luck!
2006-06-28 08:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's flirting with you, just relax and have fun with it. As long as he makes you smile, it should be all good.
It sounds as if he like you............just return the flirting. I don't know how young you are so just have fun and be happy.
2006-06-28 08:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as his cheating remains a playful jester, i say you ought to make a move and see if you're both really into each other. sometimes, though, a little playful "flirting" turns into behavior that can be emotionally hurtful. so be careful, alright?
2006-06-28 08:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by nadiaz888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flirt back and make jokes that will make him laugh and I'm pretty sure this guy likes you.
2006-06-28 08:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋