ever told someone you loved them and not meant it just because you know it's what the person wants to hear? or maybe it's because you thought you did?
i did and it has confused me!! i have forgotten how you realise your in love. any guy i thought i loved, i have gotten over really quickly. is that normal for a woman of 26?
2006-06-28 08:17:00 · 18 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HIya!!
Yeah, I think its normal...we've all done it at sopme point of other. I have told people I HATE them when I have actually been in love with them, so thats another weird thing too...
I think if you feel like you love someone, and you feel the words welling up inside you to say it then (appropriate situation advised) you should say it. Even if it turns out that the love that you told them of was different or not quite what you thought you meant at the time.
God, I mean sometimes its nice just to tell someone you love them, sometimes it feels good just to be able to say the words and to hear them back, even if that 'love' is just intense like or even just 'like'.
I'm not saying you should go around telling everyone you love them, but I just think that love can mean so many different things at once.
K
2006-06-29 01:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Agony Uncle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I did that once, but I blame the long island iced tea i drank. Yeah, it's normal for a girl ur age to say stuff u don't mean and get over a break-up real quick. AFter ur teen years, u just say and do whatever u need to to get the results u desire. Why? Because in the past u've actually meant stuff and got hurt, and u don't like that feeling. ONce bitten twice shy, plus, if u say it and mean it too many times, it won't sound like u mean it, so it's better to reserve those words for the few that u really,truly love.
2006-06-28 15:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told this guy I loved him and didn't really but that's because I was using him for money. Sure I feel bad about it now and I think that's normal to get over people you said you loved quickly. It just means you probably weren't really in love with them and you will know when you are really in love......
2006-06-28 15:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by teetee's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, once I was dating this guy who I didn't really like all that well but he was WAY into me. Anyway we were at a party this other girl was hitting on him, I got drunk and bent out of shape because of this other girl so I told him I loved him just so he would bail on this other girl. NOT NICE! But yes, basically I think most of us are guilty of this and you probably are getting over these guys easily because you just haven't found the right one.
2006-06-28 15:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by glitterprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have but i actually didn't realize how strong true love is because now that i met my man it's like i was saying this all this time and have never even felt it but i know now im willing to give up whatever for him! and believe me its normal especially if you dont have a good perception of love
2006-06-28 15:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it and felt horrible about it. But it's different to say it thinking you mean it and say it knowing you don't. I also think it is normal to get over someone quickly.
2006-06-28 15:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by francesfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i havent and i dont think thats normal for a 26 year old woman but maybe for a teen
2006-06-28 15:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by motorcrosschick01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only times I've said it and not meant it have been to my parents! That probably makes me a bad person.....but I couldn't really say "I hate you" could I?
2006-06-28 15:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Screwed up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never knew what love meant until I met my fiance, so yes I'm guilty of this!
2006-06-28 15:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we all do that without realising the gravity of the words and how it affects the life of a person who trusts you...so pls try to avoid it to get momentary pleasures....u break the purity of the words...
2006-06-28 15:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by gayatri s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋