Why do men cheat?

Question

Even if they are with holly barry they will cheat. Why do you men do it? You know it is wrong so why do it? Why are men so addicted to sex that they are willing to runin thier lives or rape someone? Why do you hear MEN hurting women more often thay anyone else? Men are spouse to me our leaders and they are failing greatly. Most of the worlds problems are coming from MEN! Why is that?

Why do men do it?

I know women do it to, I know not all men are like that but you hear men do more and worse things to girls than women. Why?

Answer 1

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They are suppose to be Men, not boys. I think some Meoys, men slash boys cheat because there like permanent children. It seems as their brain is in their pants. I think some women accept their mess, and they continue because they get the attention they want. Some men hurt women because it ups their ante as far as them knowing that a women doesn't power. i believe its a ego thing. I don't think all the world's problems come from men. Nothing will happen unless you allow it to. If women don't settle for their bull they won't dish it out.........!

Answer 2

I don't think it's just a man thing - though we hear more about that. I believe that just as many women cheat, but don't talk about it as much. I also feel that women are more "in tune" to a relationship and therefore perhaps can tell easier if the man is cheating. And I'm beginning to think that there is something in human nature that pushes men (and women) from being in a monogamous relationship for other than a short period of time. And although I believe that the person cheating is 100% responsible for the action, there is always another person involved - and that person, assuming they know the other person is married or in a serious relationship, should not put him/her in a position of potentional cheating/temptation.

People, both men and women, always think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence - hence cheating, though the person may have the "perfect" mate already. Is there something better out there that I'm missing? Could this person give me something I may be lacking? I think that before anyone cheats or thinks of cheating, they should take a step back, take a good look at what they have in their life, look at what is at risk of being lost if they do follow through, and determine if it is worth it. And then, to save everyone's feelings and do it the right way, end whatever relationship you are in BEFORE you cheat - then you are free to do what you want.

I do not believe that most of the world's problems are coming from men, but since they are usually in a higher profile, we tend to see their actions more in the forefront.

Answer 3

To paraphrase the liberal intelligentsia, "It's not our fault, it's the testosterone". It is a basic instinct to perpetuate a person's genetic code and that is the driving force at play behind a lot of things that people do that we don't like.

Rape is a good example, but men (and women too for that matter) who hurt their stepchildren is another problem with the same root cause. People subconciously want their own genetic offspring to prosper at the expense of others. You can see extreme examples of this in the animal kingdom. Male lions will kill the young of other male lions if given the chance for instance.

I agree with one of the earlier posters. Not all men cheat and not all men are violent, but the ones that do are the ones that get the press. The ones that don't cheat or commit violent acts are the ones with a healthy set of moral and spiritual values that arm them against their baser instincts.

Answer 4

dishonest extremely has extra to do with the Cheater truly than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they attempt to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they experience entitled to extra interest, affection, confirmation... It has no longer something to do with love- this is extremely extra about self-loathing, and perceived desires as against genuinely desires. even as men or women cheat- they comprehend this is incorrect, and this is incorrect because hurting somebody else is not in any respect good for your self. some human beings stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they'd rationalize dishonest by telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet both genuinely a variety of commence from interior of. Love is a decision- so is happiness, and also you may distract your self with new human beings or memories, yet finally you seize as a lot as your self and then you should commence all once extra or fix the problem.

Answer 5

I really shouldn't be answering this type of question because even though I had a wonderful childhood and great school memories, I myself have found it to be a very true statement that men only want one thing. Of course there are exceptions and yes, women do this also. I'd like to see the statistics on men who cheat and women who cheat. Personally, I think that men have more of a need to "prove" themselves, it's an ego thing. And yes, of course there are women out there that need to be desired/wanted. Self-esteem issue perhaps. Men are sort of like boys, they get bored very quickly and then it's up to us as the woman to "keep" her lover satisfied. It's up to us to find new and exciting ways to keep him interested in us. But you're very right, it doesn't come down to outward beauty, if it did, there wouldn't be so many models and celebrity break-ups. It also has to do with a control thing - men must, must, must have total control. As you can obviously tell, men aren't real high on my list of those to respect. Hope you have better luck, and remember, nobody owns you, you have your own mind and own opinion, to which you are entitled. :)

Answer 6

Well either the girl isn't giving him what he wants or he is bored of her. Men see a very beautiful woman and wonders weither or not she will be any better than who he is with. And don't tell me that women don't cheat either. Just because men like sex doesn't mean that woman don't love it too. Infact studies have shown that women are more sexually minded then men. Well that's my thoughts.

Answer 7

Men cheat because they can mostly. If am man is sitting at a bar and a halfway good looking women flirts with him he just can't help it, men love attention just like women do and if they don't get that attention at home from Holly Berry they will just get it from a girl name Holly.

Answer 8

Men cheat for the same reasons as women. I think because its exciting to be doing something you might get into trouble for. Do I detect a hint of bitterness?

Answer 9

Women cheat, too. Women have problems, too. Men are not any worse than women. Maybe they want sex more but that is just how they are made.

Answer 10

Men chaet because there is something that they lack within themselves and what they do not realize is that all the women in the world can not fill that void once they know themselves and love them selves then they will be able to love that one woman truly and unconditionally.