I am very shy and i care a lot for her. Growing up i havent been well liked by many people at all. We are both in the Drumline and we both love it. Basically we both love music. That is just something we have in common though. I just dont know how to ask cause i never have before and am very shy. I cannot stress enough how i am shy and a wuss. I also know for a fact that she likes another guy. Recently we have been talking a lot more so that is good. She is also worried about the guy she likes cause he is ignoring her. Is this a good thing. And how should i ask her?
2006-06-28 08:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by helloboredom28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should ask her out as a friend. then go somewhere thats kinda private like a movie or out to eat. then after you both are havin fun let her know. tell her how you really feel and that you want to be more then friends. if she turns you down then you were really meant to just be friends. if shes says yes then she feels the same way you do.
2006-06-28 08:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Ask her if she wants to go get a coke or something first if your to nervous. I remember a couple of guys I really liked who I didnt think liked me but I found out afterwards really did but I never knew it because they were to stupid to open up their mouths. Shy boys are a real pain.
2006-06-28 15:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by yourdoneandover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. I know how you feel, I am 16, I have never had a boyfriend, and I just told the guy I like that I like him. Even if you don't get the answer you are looking for, it feels better to just get that off your chest, and then you can define a relationship. My advice: just go for it, tell her you like her, believe me, it feels much better than holding it inside.
2006-06-28 23:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe take it a little slow and feel her out just by going to get a burger or something.. great freindships lead to good things, but dont rush into it or youll ruin what you do have..
2006-06-28 15:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by 9929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could tell her in a not if ur really shy and just pput all ur thoughts and feelings for her.....and ask if she feels that way for you.
2006-06-28 15:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Whbrunette8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ask her out. even if she doesnt want to go out with u, she'll feel good about herself knowing that someone likes her.
2006-06-28 15:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by sydd vicious. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by telling her what her i deal man is or telling her the plain truth.
2006-06-28 15:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋