I think my boyfriend is a jerk and i'm not just saying that b/c hes a guy i really love him we have been dating for a year and it has been a struggle all the way in the beginning we only saw each other on the weekends and I mean like friday or sat. b/c the other time he would be hanging w/ his friend craig which has been in our relationship form the begining and he said that he did that b/c he "guessed" he was still hurt but why make me feel like I did something wrong I still havent gotten over that and I know that I should but I havent I feel like he just keeps me at an arms distance and that hurts help!!!!
2006-06-28 08:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by lynsey the librarian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have girlfriends. Its ok to hang out with your girl friends. Why can't your boyfriend hang out with his friend. He still thinks about you when he's with his buddy. He needs space to grow. You need your space too. Then when you are together, you can share your expereinces you had when apart. You don't have to like everything he does. He doens't have to like everything you like. Be different. you can still be in love.
2006-06-28 08:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lazink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a simular situation with a girl named Tanya. Almost everytime we were together my friend John was with us. She hated that. She finally wrote me wanting me to choose bewteen her or John. Well, I liked her a lot but I wasn't ready for a serious g/f at the time. (I am now)... I just wanted something light and fun. It was my loss, but I wasn't ready at the time.
It depends on what you want. If you want a serious relationship then this is not the right one and you will continue to be frustrated.
I know the pain you are going though and it is no fun. Maybe you should take a break from this guy for a while.
2006-06-28 09:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all relationships are hard at first. You should ask him to sit down with u and really talk things over u need to tell him how u feel but don't forget to ask him how he feels at the same time. Sometime girls in general think that they are doing nothing wrong when really u are guys have feelings to. maybe u should consider breaking up if he wont talk about it
2006-06-28 08:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 13:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not breaking news all men r jerks the same all women r evil n only wants u 4 your money
2006-06-28 08:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by shredder97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's too immature to be in a relationship and cannot give it his all.
2006-06-28 08:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-06-28 08:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋