2006-06-28 07:55:01 · 17 answers · asked by Jen 5 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Like when you're making out with a guy and he wants to go further and you tell him not to and he keeps trying to do it anyway........
2006-06-28 08:00:20 · update #1
I told him not to do it and he did it anyway. Why can't they just accept that no means no?
2006-06-28 08:05:52 · update #2
But I meant no......I didn't want to do it.....I kept telling him and he wouldn't listen
2006-06-28 08:20:54 · update #3
Sweetheart, what did he do to you? Did he force you to have sex with him? If he did, then that's rape and you need to go to the police. No means no, and sometimes it's difficult to make them understand it, but he shouldn't have made you do anything you didn't want to do.
2006-06-28 09:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Caira 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a p*att, who is not worth you wasting your time on, this may sound harsh but if somebody genuinely had feelings for you and you asked them to stop they would, it is probs more to do with the fact that he just wants to get his end away not because he cares about you, i would ditch him pronto and make sure that you have the right guy next time, if you don't feel ready wait, and if the person you are seeing isn't prepared to wait, move on. due to past s*itty relationships i made my current partner wait 6 months before thing's went further than kissing etc and we are still together now near enough 5 years later.
2006-06-29 02:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by sugarbabe180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 "no" situations: the first is when you really arent interested in gettin with him and the second is when youre just sayin no cos you are a bit unsure, a bit underconfident in urselves, think you will be labeled a slu.t etc. We like to think its the second one. That way when we are persistent we can find out why you dont want to get with them and try change their mind and see if anything could have happened.
Theres a lil insight in2 our brains!
2006-06-28 08:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by g k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that, most will respect what you do or do not want to do, and how far you want to take it.
Some, however, are driven entirely by testosterone and think it's ok to carry on regardless of what you want, like you are some sort of object that is there only for their needs. If you are with a guy like this, get away from him - he doesn't respect you enough and you deserve better.
2006-06-28 09:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual galvanic response...it takes time for the hormones that have just been released into the brain to filter away. It's common for women too but it varies per person. Some men are easier to shut down than other just like some women have a harder time.
2006-06-28 08:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by machranger2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats bcos 99.99% of girls doesn't mean No when they say No and most guys from experience tend to carry on and realise that the NO actually means YES. Charl
2006-06-28 08:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Benny Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys dont like to feel like they are not incontrol of a situation and wen you tell them no that is makeing you in control and its the ego that gets the knock.
2006-06-28 07:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask if you can clarify? Stopping what? And saying no to what?
2006-06-28 07:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in their testosterone driven brains they are hearing "no" as "maybe", or even "yes".
2006-06-28 08:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys liike to think they are in control!!! and some men are just rude!!!
2006-06-28 08:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋