2006-06-28 07:54:52 · 14 answers · asked by SERENA H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell him if he doesn't you will remarry him, and make his lifie a living hell.
2006-06-28 07:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you don't already have one, get a court order for child support. Then enforce it. If he doesn't pay, contact the district attorney and have him picked up.
Personally, if I had children with someone I considered a "dirtbag" I wouldn't want child support. I'd make it on my own and keep the 'dirtbag' our of their lives.
2006-06-28 14:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by nwtobe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to divorce his sorry a**! You should get a court order for the child support. This way he can have it deducted from his pay, and you will get it.. that is if he has a job!
And for you, time to consider birth control.
2006-06-28 14:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by classybitch_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court......we as a whole in the USA seem to think deadbeat dads are ok.....BUT....IT'S wrong......
Child support isn't a gift...IT"S a RESPONSIBILITY !!!!!
It takes 2 to make those babies...and if you weren't ready to be daddy....then you should have taken precautions against it.
If a man doesn't pay or even if its a woman that has to pay...then I think the laws should be alot more strict and maybe there wouldn't be so much of this going on.
2006-06-28 15:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only way to get him to see and take his financial and can only do that by having the authorities hold him responsible. file a complaint with your local police department and they can tell you who else to contact. as for making him realize he has 4 children and needs to be there for them, its impossible he has to want to be there for them....just remember if he's a dirtbag you don't want him in their lives except for his financial support, there are a lot worst things than not having a uncaring husband and father....let him go and hope he sends his checks from as far away from you and your children as possible.
2006-06-28 15:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by hell_in_a_handbasket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find a good attorney and take him to court.
2006-06-28 15:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Annie's World 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the courts, who will make sure that he does his part - or else he will have a long vacation in prison.
2006-06-28 15:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court. Go to the attorney generals office it doesn't cost you anything.
2006-06-28 14:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him realize that. That is up to him. You just need to get things done on your own and forgot about him.
2006-06-28 14:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have his wages garnished. The money will be taken from his paycheck and given to you.
2006-06-28 14:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋