he is from another country differs than mine we just know eah other for 2 weekswhenhe told me that he loves me!!!n don't ask me y i said me too???now i know i really love him we r coming near a year of knowing each other but still have some fears towards him as i don't trust him much till now we didn't meet personally we connect through internet(voice n audio)n phones he promised to visit me twice but he didn't and now he last promised to come in 15th july (comming july) wat i dd if he didn't do it this time also ,i really do LOVE HIM ,what can i do??
2006-06-28 07:15:54 · 18 answers · asked by shahy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard to trust someone who doesn't keep their word. Also, before you EVER meet someone off of the internet you should get a background check done on them. Sounds a little fishy, and that way you have some kind of peace of mind. Good luck.
2006-06-28 07:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him why he never comes to see u and that as much as i can give u. Also, meet him in a public place and continue doing that for awhile until u can trust him 100% and not a % less. U never met him so u can't trust him. He's a total stranger and u CAN'T TRUST SOMEONE U DONT KNOW, EVEN if u think u love them. People u meet over the internet can be dangerous and they can easily lie to u. I'm not saying that about everyone u meet on the internet, but for mostly, this is true. Just because u known him over the internet for almost a year doesn't mean u know who he is completely. Be safe. Your safety is #1.
2006-06-28 14:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like your boyfriend has other business besides you. I may be wrong, but if you two haven't met personally, and he has promised to visit you and hasn't kept his promise, it kind of sounds like dishonesty to me. You two should have a serious talk. Ask him why he hasn't come the last two times that he promised. Ask him what could possibly be that important as to where he had to just leave you hanging. And please, recognize the truth. If it sounds like he's lying, don't be in denial and tell yourself that he was just nervous, because the truth is what most likely can fix this situation.
2006-06-28 14:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Brittanie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give him this last chance and see if he really follows through with his promise to visit and get to know all about him when he comes. Prepare things that maybe you are interested in knowing about him and also get to know things that you would want to know about any person. Just so that your bases are covered and so that you don't get to hurt in the process because it is mostly inevitable to not get hurt especially when you are in love. Be careful but loving and interested in getting to know one another on all levels.
2006-06-28 14:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberli D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better put those feelings of Love on hold dear...you don't even know this guy. Love after 2 weeks...hmmmm sounds like he's up to something. He promised to visit twice and didn't....ARE YOU NUTS???? WAKE UP!!!!Obviously you feel something is wrong here too....you better go with your gut on this and don't be a FOOL.
2006-06-28 14:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, i think that yeah he cares for you and I'm sure he wants to go see you but lets look at this realisticaly.........he is a man and man like women, and him being far away from you, you know he is getting with other girls, as messed up as it sounds, the truth hurts, but good luck to the both of you.
2006-06-28 14:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by changa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your feelings, you wouldnt be here asking questions, if you had no doubts, he lives somewhere else, he could be anybody, you really dont know if you love him until you meet and he hasnt met you yet, could be using you, but it really boils down to your feelings/doubts, and you have them , so stick with them, they are probably right
2006-06-28 14:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by bestwrencher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAN'T REALLY OVERCOME THE SUSPICIOUS ACTIVITY YOUR BOYFRIEND ALL U CAN DO IS ASK HIM ABOUT THE ACTIVITY THAT IS BEING DISPLAYED AND THEY ARE ALWAYZ MAKING CERTAIN POSTURES WHEN THEY ARE LYING SO THAT SHOULD TELL U SOMETHING N IF HE IS LYING THEN LET HIM GO CAUSE THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE 10 TIMES BETTER THAN THAT.(GOOD QUESTION U MADE ME THINK)
2006-06-28 14:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by jazminegant_2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are difficult to keep. dont get too involved with someone that is too far away unless there is a serious commitment before hand...there are too many people out there for you to be obsessed over a picture...
2006-06-28 14:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by lopezjb007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet love is not a healthy thing.
Are you not smart enough and confident enough to know that and find a "real boyfriend" ?
2006-06-28 14:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Matty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋