why did he leave!?

Question

i sent this guy a note sayin that i like him because im movin this week sometime. and where we hang out i saw him there yesterday and he was there for a second then left why did he leave?. is it because he dont like me?. and before i sent him the note when he would be by me he would always smile and he would grab me by the stomach and he would poke me in the stomach! i havent seen him since june 1st

Answer 1

HE DONT LIKE YOU!!!!!!!!BOO FREAKIN HOO

Answer 2

The game men/boys like to play is usually the part of pursuer. If you are too forward there is no fun. If you are leaving and moving away you are out of the game because you're a long distance pursuit and much too difficult. They are letting you down gently

OR

They are disappointed that you are leaving and want to either get you off alone to speak or does not know what to say. You did not follow when he left, so we will never know.

Answer 3

Think about it you are moving, second a guy likes a women who can tell him to his face that you like him not giving him a note, and poking you in the stomach means he does not like you.

Answer 4

Well, it's good that you took a chance and told him, either way. It might've been better to do it in person, because then at least he would've had to stick around to tell you how he felt.

Seems like it's one of two things. Either he doesn't like you like you said, or he's confused and also freaked out because you're leaving and decided not to deal with it at all by avoiding you, which is his loss. I'm sorry, it pretty much sucks either way, especially since it seems like he was acting like he liked you before he disappeared. I hope he comes back or you can find him before you have to leave, so you at least get a chance to say good bye.

Answer 5

Difficult to hear...but he sounds like he's not interested. And maybe it's for the best, depending on how far your moving...maybe it's not the best thing to get something started. But you never know, not to get your hopes up...because I think you should move on, but I kinda had this same situation with this guy, I've been in love with him all my life, but I move alot...and he never seemed interested. Turns out that he's always been but thought that it made no sense to start something when, well... I wasn't going to be around.

Answer 6

some guys dont so much like forwardness but dont let that discourage you that is a really strong quality that later on MEN will appreciate n you, the fact that you can and will state you mind. ;) just count it as a lesson learned and try new and different tactics in your new town

Answer 7

he is immature maybe and don't know what your liking him involves and what to expect, he might not want to lead you on or feel that he has already. ask him why he is acting so wierd, is this his first time a gurl has liked him and told him. tell him you wouldn't hang out with him if you didn't like him, so whats the problem. clear the air before it festers.

Answer 8

Maybe he is sad about you leaving and just can't tell you. Guys don't like to talk about their feelings. He probably doesn't believe in long distance relationships. It maybe his way of saying he is hurt.

Answer 9

Well, maybe he really likes you and is scared to show any feeling now that you will be moving? Or maybe he is scared to take it further.

Answer 10

Maybe he thinks you are moving too fast. Get on with your life and forget about him.

Answer 11

He probably didn't like you ,like you but thought you were just a cool girl who he didn't mind having as his friend.