In my experience whenever im nice to a girl shes not interested but when she meets an asshole she loves him...why do women love assholes?
2006-06-28 06:48:32 · 17 answers · asked by Greshymn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many differing reasons for this... I've often wondered this myself since I think I'm a pretty nice guy. here are some reasons given to me by my various female friends :
(1) Assholes are more aggressive and nice guys tend to be more passive. A lot of women like guys to be the hunters and make the first move
(2) Assholes usually don't care what others think of them so it's that aura of supreme self-confidence that attracts women like flies. Most would call it arrogance, but to the asshole, it don't make a difference. Also, assholes will take more chances and do stupid stunts to impress the ladyfolk around them. Ladies like this.
(3) Assholes tend to be more charming than nice guys. They are on the active hunt for notches on their belt and so they've honed their skills to a fault. Nice guys get by on their natural charm but women usually use that for a safe haven which is why women like nice guys for friends.
(4) Think of assholes as a venus flytrap or pitcher plant for women. Nice and inviting on the outside but once they have a woman, it's not nearly so nice for the woman. Nice guys would be like orchids and stuff...nice on the inside and out.
Ah well... nothing wrong with having a myriad of female friends... you get to learn very interesting stuff from them...
2006-06-28 07:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by cardpackrat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always think that people go for "like minded" people, so maybe these women are also asshole?
one thing about women is that i have met very few that i like, find a nice girl and she will like you, you just have to be in the right places meeting the right people.
2006-06-28 06:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by JennyPenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the assholes are the bad boys our moms told us to stay away from. Just like motorcycles are very big turn on for me- my mom doesn't want me to be with anyone that drives one because my father does and he takes off for entire nights but then accuses my mom as the one having an affair if she goes to the post office and is gone for more than 10 minutes- The post office is in walking distance but you have to cross a major highway.
2006-06-28 06:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called perverse logic, people what what they aren't or cant have. She wants the rule breaker, the person who will do bad things and generate some interest or excitement. This is not necessarily the person she wants to marry, just someone to have fun with. You need to be yourself, although you can be more active and exciting and push your own limits. You don't really need to be an asshole, just be less rigid and more spontaneous.
2006-06-28 06:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Plano G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam a woman and i do agree that women accept anything from men these days. now adays women are settling for less, their self esteem is very low and they dont think they can do any better than a asshole, and men seem to only seek these type of women so they can have their cake and eat it to.
2006-06-28 06:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by cutey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your TO nice, to mushy, to smothering.
Could you be over the top nice and that turns them off.
I think you just haven't found the right girl yet, but the nice guys will end up on top don't worry.
Some women have been treated badly for so long that when someone is so nice it scares them and they don't feel like they deserve something so good.
2006-06-28 06:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I have never been attracted to assholes myself I like men who are good to themselves and do not take life to serious.
2006-06-28 06:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of many of the hot problems women persons face is that now they are merely as equivalent, many of the time, earning the enjoyed ones money. yet nonetheless are predicted to get dinner and safeguard the youngsters, clean the residing house. adult males additionally are i spotted are much less in all hazard to artwork and anticipate the spouse to safeguard them. adult males are afraid to open the door for us, i think the two from concern that we are going to yell at them that we are able to do it ourselves, they don't supply high quality compliments by way of concern that we are going to fee them with sexual harassment. we are fortunate to discover a guy that cares adequate to opt to be at residing house, and is slightly old shaped approximately taking care human beings yet nonetheless enables us to be an equivalent. I additionally think of that ladies persons are compelled to look a undeniable way, because of the fact of fake merchandising that Hollywood has shown us with the perfect women persons. while in fact that's an phantasm that without 50 human beings engaged on her for 5 hours will by no ability gain.
2016-12-08 13:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women like asshole b/c they think its fun to date them
2006-06-28 06:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 06:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋