I am not a racist or anything but I am puertorican and I respect black people but when it comes to being attracted to someone of the opposite sex all the men I have liked have been white or a little tanned like me, and a lot of black men have checked me out but I don't feel attracted to them.
In my country there is nothing wrong with that and people don't call it interracial dating. Personally I don't care, but do people find it wrong for a puertorican girl to date a complete white man.
Is there's atraction then who cares right?
2006-06-28 06:07:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am talking about the U.S
2006-06-28 06:08:31 · update #1
Stop beating yourself up because political correctness and pop culture wants to brain wash you into thinking there's something wrong with you if you aren't equally attracted to all races! Attraction is biology and experience! It can't be forced upon you by current societal notions! I am exclusively attracted to WHITE women of northern European descent-- anyone who doesn't like it can BITE ME. It's not intentional, it's not based on a conscious racist decision-- it's attraction. You're not attracted to black men because you're not! That all! There's no more something wrong with you than if you say you don't like caramel corn. In fact-- it is 100% NATURAL to be attracted to like people. It's how our bodies work. Half the time I think people who say they're attracted to other races are full of it!
2006-06-28 06:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Possibly the reason you are not attracted to black men, is because of ethnocentricity. Ethnocentrism is a belief that ones own culture is inherently superior to other cultures (and groups). Thus one feels more at home with people from their own culture and group.
I hope this answer at least gives you a starting point from which to analyze your feelings about 'other cultures' in the world.
Hugs to you...
2006-06-28 06:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Raymond C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date whomever you want to honey! It is about you and them and if there is no chemistry, then you can't fake it. Honestly, I am much more picky about men of color than I am white boys....granted I like them all-but sometimes there needs to be that butterfly in the belly before I can ask for a name or number...ya know?
2006-06-28 06:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Black men act cocky and self guaranteed round females. White boys have a tendency to act slightly goofy round a woman they locate pleasing. i'm now unlikely to get into no matter if you would possibly want to or might want to no longer date black men. it really is something you want to talk including your moms and dads about.
2016-11-29 21:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am only attracted to white/ tan men. I don't think anything is wrong with it. Best wishes
2006-06-28 06:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by colorist 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im not either, I dont like their features (bone structure) etc etc. Im not racist either I have black friends too, I have 1 black gf who thinks the same as me, haha
2006-06-28 06:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tabbitatt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. There are some women from certain countries I just do not find attractive. It's just taste, plain and simple.
2006-06-28 06:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You date whomever you have attraction too! Some females are not attracted to guys of their own race. So whatever floats your boat, then go for it.
2006-06-28 06:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT AT ALL YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO FEEL ABOUT IT THE WAY YOU DO NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AND IF YOU LIKE THE WHITE MEN GET YOU ONE GIRL ITS UR RIGHT TO DATE WHO EVER YOU WANT TO DATE
2006-06-28 06:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by ann h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why ask why? It is not wrong to be or not to be attracted to anyone or anything. It's just who you are. and why would it be wrong for a PR girl to date a white man, or black man, or Asian man. or...... why ask why
2006-06-28 06:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by unintendedmilf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋