i cant stop loving this guy that said he had no feelings for me. i told him i love him it donsnt help..help me

Question

well i really like this boy like really love him.. he was the first guy i have this stronge feelings for him.. i called him and i told him that i love him he said "okey"... and then 1 week after i asked him out.. i never asked a boy out all the boys that i dated they asked me out ...and i am never giong to ask a boy out agine because he told me he has no feelings for me.. and what hurts the most is that he is the one who started with me first..and this my not have been the smarest thing to do but i want to sleep with him.. we had sex.. and he said he said he donsnt love me after i did this with him.. we did it before asked him out and told him i love him. and i know i should not have done that but when u realy love someone u cant contrule what u r doin..and know he acts like i dnot exiset and i still love him and i dont know what to do i stuck plzz help me i dont know what to do when i face him agine at skol what do i tell him??? what do i do??? i mean he stoped even saying hey

Answer 1

the best way to get a man out of your brain is to get involved in something you really love.

I know that sounds too simple, but I swear it works. What happens is it takes your mind off him and you start feeling better for little patches of time, and the more you do what you love, the less time you'll think of him.

It sounds like he used you, and frankly, he's not worth your devotion. You are worthy of far more than this. Believe it and act on it.

Answer 2

O.K, the same thing happened to my friend. She liked this guy and she would tell him "i luv u" but he said he wasn't interested. Still, she asked him out over and over again. (She asked him out about 7 times!) but still he would say no. He said he was annoyed by her cause she seemed desperate. Soon he didn't say hi and he only looked at her weirdly. The way she moved on is by finding this other guy that was so sexy! She never looked at the guy she asked out and he realized she moved on, so now they're just friends. So just find some other sexy guy and try to get over the guy you had sex with. My friend still likes the first guy, but she doesn't want to go out with him any more.