shes a tall redhead and she likes me i can tell. but why wont she go out with me? im not ugly. neither is she. we have similar likes and dislikes. what's the deal? what else should i say to her. i just want a steady relationship with her. nothing more. how can i get her to love me.
2006-06-28 06:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Da Pudding Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People may like each other but not romantically
2006-06-28 06:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is shy. You should definitely talk to her and point blank ask her why she doesn't want to go out with you. There is obviously more to the story. And by the way.......you cannot under ANY circumstances MAKE someone fall in love with you. Love is something we cannot control. If it happens it happens. You can't walk into a store and buy a bottle of Love Potion 99 and expect it to work can you? Exactly.
2006-06-28 13:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember a boy ask me for a kiss and I wanted to, but I got so nervous that I said no and run away, I regretted today, I'm searching for this boy for years. I really like him a lot and I don't know why in the world I said No.
So don't give up on her, go easy on her and make sure you have flowers for her or something she likes, to show you care. But don't ask her again until she is flexible, sometimes a kiss could happen without asking. It's better to steal a kiss then to ask for it.
Best Luck to you!
2006-06-28 13:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Evy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now getting her to LOVE you, no one else will be able to answer that. That comes later, and you figure it out yourself. If its meant to be love, it'll be love. You can't force it.
But just getting her to GO OUT with you? Well if you asked her out and she said no, either she's playing hard to get, is too shy to say yes, or you aren't as good as reading signs as you thought and she isn't really that into you. If its one of the first two, just give it time and keep talking to her and being sweet and getting closer to her as a FRIEND first. If its the last one, I'm sorry, but you have to move on. Friends is all you can be.
2006-06-28 13:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Alta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her why she said no.... I had a guy come to me and ask me why I said no and then we started to become friends and then that led to bf and gf. I said no to that specific boy b/c I didn't even know him very well and I didn't want to be with someone if I hardly new them.... and maybe she was not looking for a relationship you never know I mean what do you have to loose????? Just ask her
2006-06-28 13:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just like you as a friend. or maybe the fact that you two have similar likes and dislikes freaks her out...sometimes a successful couple comes from two people that have nothing in common...huhuhu
2006-06-28 13:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shiro-kun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to get to know you better. Just be patient and ask again later.
2006-06-28 13:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u askin for too much at one time dude...be easy ...and be sure she like u like that....yeah she might like u but as a friend and cant see you and her as anything more.....just keep bein her friend and if she wants more she'll let u know
2006-06-28 13:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by dt l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be nervous. Is she generally shy?
2006-06-28 13:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby she wants to get to know you more
2006-06-28 13:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by wwe fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋