I like this guy and we dated and he said he luved me and I waz freaking awesome on the phone and we were planning on going to the movies and he waz like can I hold your hand. Well we never went and we broke up and now he is all mean to me and won't call and before we talked like 24/7. He is being a total jerk.O and he dated my friend before me and now he wants her back and will deny he ever said he luved me and says he only went out with me for the fun of it. Do u think he still likes me? please answeer I am so confused
2006-06-28 05:52:52 · 16 answers · asked by kristen7011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's called puppy love. you wont find real love until your older and more experienced in many areas.
2006-06-28 05:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 13 and i feel that way sometimes. i dont get it. why do u think he likes u after all of what hes said? after u get dumped, take a break. get over it and wait a coulple weeks b4 u get back in the game. being in love is really overrated at 13. u feel like u are in love and u are so happy and that nothing can go wrong and then it does. i have been there and done that. u could of fell in love at 13, its not impossible, its just unlikley you will stay in love. there are 6 billion people out there, and we are only 13. i think we should go slower. i am 13. listen to me. i have been in 'love' like 16 times since 2nd grade. i look back and think, if i had stayed with him, i wouldnt have a oppurtunity to be with the guy i am with now! your guy will come. u cant go looking for them. ask almost anybody[who is married] and ask them how they met. usually its like somewhere by chance, a bus stop, a friend introduced them, at a bar etc. dont worry girl. it will all be ok. but for now, stay away from the *** and be single for a bit. flirting is fun! and its good practice for when u need it!
-ElementAmigo4
2006-06-28 05:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you should be confused, 13 yr old boys and gurls don't know the first thing about love, yes you have feelings, I am not saying you don't but don't turn those feelings into love or something that will mold your opinion of guys. they don't have a clue what they want at 13 yrs old. I was one of them. my life is so different than it was at 13, who would have known back then. just hink of it as he gave you your heart back to love whomever you choose. he has no hold on it now, and you will find someone else to love, it's your ego talking for getting dumped , not your heart. good luck and don't take it too serious.
2006-06-28 06:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will personally send you $1000 if you two ever get married. 80% of all teenagers have said "I love you" but only something like 5% mean it. And I bet you even fewer end up together. I hate to break it to you, but he played you, and that makes him a jerk. Forget him and move on. There will be PLENTY of love in your life, and great guys in the future, and it is not worth wasting time on him. Good luck!
2006-06-28 06:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Science-
It's proven that teenage brains are mixed up with chemicals, I mean yours and his too. I'm sure you understand that love is built from initial attraction, then trust and finally commitment. If the reasons either of you said you loved were based from these things then it was true love as most adults know it. Please, I remember what being a teenager was like, and I have to tell you that guys will say things to make themselves look better, and girls will say things to make others feel good. But don't let these words make you do anything that can alter your life situation for years to come.
Next time, don't fall in love, grow in love and let it take lots of time. Lots and lots of time, like three years. I wish you good luck, and I hope you don't let yourself get manipulated, but if you're like me you will let it, and you will regret it.
2006-06-28 06:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13, it can be love, but the way he's been acting it's more like infatuation and confusion. For a boy of 13yrs old, I don't think they understand their feelings. He's still a boy trying to get your attention any way he can (positive or negative). If you stand up against him for his bad behavior then he will continue to be mean to you.
You don't need his negativity. Just walk away and don't accept his calls. Just keep saying in your head "I don't need jerks like him."
2006-06-28 06:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a tip for you. if a guy tells you he loves you before you've been dating a long time, chances are he's trying to get in your pants...or the 13 year old equivalent of that. sorry to break it to you, but he doesn't like you. believe me, i went through the same thing. i liked a guy, we went out, he dumped me for my best friend. he'd been dating me the entire time just to get closer to my friend.
but if he's that much of a jerk when you're not together, do you really want to be with him at all?
2006-06-28 05:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by rinnasaurusrex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only phisical attraction not a love u said u are 13 u didn't even see the world till now and you are in love
2006-06-28 05:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by jak4friends 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love, not REAL love anyway. He is not worth your time. Love takes a long time to develop. It's more complicated. You will see, I thought the same thing at 13.
2006-06-28 06:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like he dosn't like you anymore its just lust not love if u really like him that much just be friends with him and if he likes you hhe will ask you out but hay if he is trying to go back out with his ex then just gicve it a brake and just wait and see what happens
2006-06-28 05:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by countrybitc89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋