well i really like this boy like really love him.. he was the first guy i have this stronge feelings for him.. i called him and i told him that i love him he said "okey"... and then 1 week after i asked him out.. i never asked a boy out all the boys that i dated they asked me out ...and i am never giong to ask a boy out agine because he told me he has no feelings for me.. and what hurts the most is that he is the one who started with me first..and this my not have been the smarest thing to do but i want to sleep with him.. we had sex.. and he said he said he donsnt love me after i did this with him.. we did it before asked him out and told him i love him. and i know i should not have done that but when u realy love someone u cant contrule what u r doin..and know he acts like i dnot exiset and i still love him and i dont know what to do i stuck plzz help me i dont know what to do when i face him agine at skol what do i tell him??? what do i do??? i mean he stoped even saying hey
2006-06-28 05:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a date and a good lovemaking would do wonders.
2006-06-28 05:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, honey, take a deep breath & relax. It's not the end of the world, believe me. The boy got scared off by two things - one, the fact that you had sex with him right away, without even having a relationship with him and two, that you told him that you loved him afterwards. You put yourself out there & you got hurt and nothing, nothing, nothing hurts like having a broken heart. But everyone goes through this sort of thing, everyone who's human, that is. So you made a mistake - big deal. It's not going to matter 100 years from now, so so what. As hard as this is going to be for you to do, you just have forgive yourself for making the mistake, don't call him or even talk to him - he's not interested in you right now, but a year from now, who knows?, and have a good long cry. Then you pull yourself up by your boot straps, get out there and hold your head up high because giving your love to someone who doesn't want you is no crime. It just shows that you have some love to give. Next time, let the guy earn it.
Good luck to you!
2006-06-28 12:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by msgene61@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy's want what they can't have so you must move on i've been in that situation before and your wasting valuable time on him. You need to keep in mind that success is the best revenge. When I was in that situation I kept asking myself how can you mind a brocken heart how am I gonna get over him? TIME is the only way you have to just let time go buy and you will wake up and say hey I didn't even think about him today! I still think about the guy I loved that didn't love me back & it's been seven years but when I catch myself thinking about him I realize how much better my life is without him. And how much he envy's me now & how much I proved him wrong.
2006-06-28 13:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by unique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u basiclly said it he was the one who started it , got what he wanted and moved on........ Let him be I might thing u love this guy but in the u really dont he never care about u he only cared about him self so MOVE ON act like nothing ever happened and Deny Eveything if u want Eventually once u get back to school U will find someone who will love u back and then dont worry about it , he will end up losing cuz he'lll see u happy.....
Good Luck
2006-06-28 12:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may not help you right now...but: It will get better! You are hurt now, everyone has to go through that. I know this doesn`t make sense and it is not fair. You did a very courageous thing by telling him how you feel. Everytime you do that, you put yourself out there, vulnerable. I admire that. He already told you his answer, he has no intention of being with you. Stop pursuing him, love yourself, let it go, it will take a while, but you can do it.
2006-06-28 12:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see lov this is the oldest thing in the world we all feel for jurks but i can tell he doesnt deserv you and if you want to heart him just act like nothing happened and live you're life play with his mind and keep in mind that what you said to him was the worst mistake you have ever made
2006-06-28 12:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by ioana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life
2006-06-28 12:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by daniel z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer him more sex.
if that doesn't work you should look for a new boy.
they all like sex.
2006-06-28 12:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MOVE ON..............
2006-06-28 12:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋