I was having a long distance realtionship everything was going great but then all of a sudden it seem like he didnt trust me anymore. He said he was having famliy problems an he would tell me most of the time that i was mean to him because i was usually with my friends all the time an didnt talk to him much. Before we broke up he told me he was going to have some church camp for a week an i said i was ok with it but like 3 days before he had to go to camp he instant message me an said you just wanna be friends dont you i told him no he said just admit it you do an then he said i just wanna be single an i asked why he said i dont know ever since that day i havent talked to him because he has his cell phone off so should i wait an try to work things out or no
2006-06-28 05:40:54 · 38 answers · asked by funnygirltobewith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him some space, if there is some family problems going on, maybe he is just stressed out, and he lashed out at you. Dont take it to heart, but give him the space that he needs, but dont wait for him either. Go on with your life, and when he realizes what a jerk he was to you, he will call you.
2006-06-28 05:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a long distance relationship as well and trusting the other person can be really tough. It irritates me to no end when my boyfriend accuses me of cheating on him or of wanting to be single (it mostly happens when he's drunk). It all comes down to trust. If he doesn't trust you, then there's not much of a relationship to go on anyways. If you care about him a lot - a whole lot - then wait for him to come available and talk to him about it. Something else you might want to consider is that he might be taking the cowards way of breaking up with you by making it seem like you're the reason you guys can't be together.
2006-06-28 05:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you meet him in person yet or just on the internet if you havent met him in person he is playing games with you bcuz you never know what the hell is out there i would suggest not doing that! But if you know him and have been dating and he moved or whatever like you said long distance,forget him Love comes and Love goes I understand what it is like first hand on how men, boys,act like that I would not wait for him I know everyone says this but he will be the one missing out cuz he is the one that left you others will come along trust me they always do so keep your head up and forget about him he is in the past if he comes back around stick it to him someone who plays games like that is not worth it. You will find someone someday who is worth your time dont waste yor life or time waiting around for someone who isnt!
2006-06-28 05:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions. He probably has his phone off because he is at camp??
Sound like he is getting pressure from some outside source. DO not sit and pine over him and don't call or email him. Give him some space. Then if you don't hear from him move on. Life is to short for games.
2006-06-28 05:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by angelofmercy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he doesn't trust you anymore. Even if he really wants to be with you, he's made up his mind that you don't want to be with him, or he's decided that you didn't spend enough time with him, which sounds overly needy if you were just hanging with friends (unless you were ignoring him during that period).
In any case, move on. He's probably not mature enough to expect much of a relationship from him at this point anyway. :)
2006-06-28 05:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by JStrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should at least find a way to talk to this guy! It would probably be worth the time! Maybe you haven't been able to reach him on his cell because he is on the camping trip thing!! You should at least give him another chance!!
2006-06-28 05:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Soopspoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question?? Never! If he is so wack that he will not be with you, have more self-respect and forget the jerk. Find a dude that knows how awesome you are and is willing to do anything to be with you. If you're chasing him and he's just not coming your way, then he's just probably not that into you, and SO not worth your time. Love yourself more, sister!!
2006-06-28 05:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Dont wait for him. You should not waste your life waiting on something that might not happen. Get out some and meet other people. He will come around if he wants to. Good Luck with it!
2006-06-28 05:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by xOJeNNiFeR06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone was not as honest as they should have been. some ppl deal with break ups like this and it can sometimes lead to some left open wounds. you need some closier. if you can not just move on then best get in contact with him and resolve those unanswered questions you have. communication is so important in relationships and it sounds like he and maybe you are struggling with this. either move on or contact him.
2006-06-28 05:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by crzygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...i would say u can wait 4 him if u want and u willfully want the relationship 2 continue then its cool that u wait 4 him, but the downside is since he dropped the bomb on u and putn u n the spotlight then he was jus waitn 4 the relationship to end...so its a possibility he wants to move on....
2006-06-28 05:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋