How dyou know if your girl friend is a virgin?
2006-06-28 05:32:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no sure fire way because a lot of girls break their hymen doing sports, masturbating or using large tampons way before they lose their virginity so there's not much point looking for blood on the sheets after sex!
Indicators to look for are physical tension when engaging in sex, nervousness, a pained expression and lack of knowledge about the technicalities of intercourse that no one tells you for example, that your vagina can 'fart' after vigorous sex, that if you put your clothes back on and go for a walk after sex you're likely to get a lot of semen in your knickers etc.
The best bet is to have an honest conversation about it. If you can't be honest with each other then there's not much point in having sex anyway because it will be rubbish.
2006-06-28 08:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why is so important to know? Is it for curiosity? Is there a confidence issue reflected in this question about either you or this person regarding sexual performance/experience? Whether someone is a virgin or not should not be a primary issue. Relationships mature and change with time. If someone feels confident to tell you, they will, but you shouldn't pressure them into telling you. If this is all the interest you have then it doesn't speak much of you or what a future relationship could be about with you.
What would knowing if they are a virgin or not mean to you? If it is an indicator that you can expect sex you will be very disappointed. Sex and relationships are not synonymous with each other, nor is it a pre-requisite for a relationship.
Sorry to be harsh sounding, but if you display only this one aspect of interest in someone, then your relationships are going to be short, uneventful and meaningless. A person is full of other experiences, interests, meaning and abilities, not just between the sheets events.
2006-06-28 06:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by SoulVibe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point in your relationship, you'll feel close enough to her to ask her. And, if you've made her feel safe and loved when she's with you, she'll tell you.
But, let me ask you a question. Why does it matter? If the two of you feel safe and loved with each other and can commit to each other, that's what matters.
Don't misunderstand he, please. Fidelity matters -- a lot. But, if you've reach the point where the two of you are willing to be faithful to each other, the past is largely irrelevant, IMHO.
2006-06-28 05:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard that when a man has sex, he can feel wether the girl is still virgin or not.
This is why muslim girls try to stay virgin (because of religion), because they know they're husband might feel she's not virgin anymore, and then she's got a problem...
2006-06-28 05:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know for sure and virginity is defined many different ways. Some say oral sex is not counted against virginity. If the hymen is intact then she probably did not have vaginal sex. There is no other way to know unless you trust her when she says she is a virgin.
2006-06-28 05:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by FrogDog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and she truly loves you then what's in the past is in the past, if you do not love her then what difference does it make, if she doesn't love you than how can you trust that she does not cheat on you later even if she was a virgin before?
2006-06-28 05:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other answers. Ask her, and ask her to be honest. And be mature about her answer.
Also I'd like to tell the others -- *please* study anatomy.
A lot of myths and "fantasies" about virginity are rampant around the world. Learn up.
(EDIT: "Dutch_Dude": Not true. That is incorrect.)
Read this:
2006-06-28 05:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by fadedck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hebrew meaning of virgin is this
Virgin=unmarried woman
so everything from hebrew translation should be this?
i dont know what do you think and would it really matter?
2006-06-28 05:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by eg_ansel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ready to make some voodoo sacrifice of a virgin? If so, good luck finding one...
2006-06-28 05:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions:
1) is she constantly asking and making passes at you?
2) does she talk about it often?
3) Is our relationship far enough along that I can ASK HER?
2006-06-28 05:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by ashbrandz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋