I was involved in a 4 year relationship with a very nice guy, however I feel I´m not in love anymore, I told him, we broke up after two week I met this really handsome man, who I thought was never going to approach me. I told him I knew he was dating other girls, he denied it and said he had to compare if it was worth to leave one for the other, however I told him I was not a game nor dessert. If he is that handsome I don´t understand why he keeps insisting with me, I´m a psychologist!! I should know and probably know how to deal with him, but I can´t I keep thinking maybe he´ll change or worse I´ll make him change....please I need advice
2006-06-28 05:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by MMEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just got out of a 4 year relationship and you are ready to jump into a new one after two weeks? You contradict yourself you said you told him you knew he was dating others ..he denies it but tells you that he needs to compare if it was worth it to leave one for the other? Anyway it's ok that he is dating others considering you aren't in a committed relationship, you are just dating. Guess what you can date others too! Don't make someone your priority when you are only their option. I, quite frankly, think it's a lil soon to be jumping into a new relationship so quick but that's your decision to make. Keep dating the guy but don't make yourself completely available to him, create a challenge. Also date other people and let him know about it. After all the two of you aren't exclusive, unless he makes it that way. Just take it slow and do what a psychologist does best, analyze.
2006-06-28 06:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by DLo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is going out with a lot of other women who knows what diseases he may have or how many he may get pregnant. I'd do a little more checking into his habits and background before I had anything to do with him. Besides unless you want an uncommitted relationship, dump him he's not worth wasting your time on. There are a lot of handsome men out there. Good Luck!
2006-06-28 05:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by nahimana34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know, you can't make a man change. If he denied dating other girls, he already lied to you. That's not a good start. And he was REALLY interested in you, he wouldn't be dating other people. You deserve better. Is he the only good looking man on the earth?? I think not. You'll find one even better looking.
2006-06-28 05:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no don't every think about staying with him. Every if he cute. If I was you i would drop he just like that. I wouldn't take no mam ****. If he can't do the right thing then it would had been over. You need a man who will treat you like his queen.
2006-06-28 05:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by amberlizzy@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that i am looking for a one on one relationship and if he can't give it to me then he is not what i want.If he really likes you he will stop seeing the other girls
2006-06-28 05:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think like this .. he is handsome and you think you are not .. if he is dating you then let him be.. but if he is not going to do any bad thing .. then let him go dating with you .. its just dating ... but if you start to love him .. then let him choose or you will regret someday ..
2006-06-29 21:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some useful advice here.
2006-07-03 10:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No becuz what if you get married and he still is doing that would you like it?
2006-06-28 05:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by ~boy crazy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW THIS PERSON WHO WOULD ENCOURAGE YOU TO CONTINUE TO DATE HIM SO THAT THEY THEM SELF COULD BECOME INTIMATE WITH YOU ALSO,FROM HEAD-TO-TOE THEY WOULD EXPLORE YOUR BODY SLOWLY AND DELIBERATELY.....LET ME INTRODUCE YOU!!! HIV AIDS THIS WOMAN SHE'S REALLY INTERESTED IN KNOWING WHAT YOU CAN AND WILL DO FOR HER?
2006-06-28 05:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by terry j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋