shesaid she stoped drinkin 4 months ago but yestrday she said sorry cuz she took 7 shots of liqour last week wat should i do?
2006-06-28 05:22:26 · 21 answers · asked by wat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to her how this makes you feel, but, do realize that she has to want to change her behavior for herself. If she doesnt stop drinking then perhaps you should find love elsewhere.
2006-06-28 05:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is going to be a factor in this, since you did not provide that information, let's assume that she is of drinking age.
If she is blacking out on these drinking binges then it is very serious and her health, even her life, is in jeopardy. She needs to go to AA, but understand this; people do not go to AA until there is nowhere else to go. They must hit bottom. If you are committed to her then watching her take the journey to her bottom is going to be painful. You might consider attending AL ANON which is a support group for the people effected by alcoholics.
Either way, good luck for the both of you.
2006-06-28 12:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of as concept called communication. Also always remember that you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink. She will only change if she wants to. You cant force her to. Is she willing to Quit or not, thats the question and one you should ask and pray that you get a honest answer.
2006-06-29 16:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she an alcoholic?....Is she trying not to drink?.....If this is the case you should be there for her and see what kind of problems she's going through to make her drink....so that maybe you could just be there for her...for her to talk to maybe you can give her advice or take her to some AA meetings.....maybe find something else to feel her need to drink......I hope it all works out.
2006-06-28 12:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect her to change. run and don't look back she is a party animal and it will only get worse you will put up with it for sometime but eventually you will get tired of it or she will leave you to keep partying
2006-06-28 12:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by JESS31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you only have three options. 1 deal with it and allow her to drink 2. tell her she has got to go. 3.compromise talk to her and tell her how you feel and if she is willing to work on it then there is something there if not its not worth your time man. good luck
2006-06-28 12:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Spyder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better dump that hoe... if she is getting drunk it is only a matter of time before you get the herp or AIDS...
2006-06-28 12:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her 2 a pastor or therapist
2006-06-28 12:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by blinkzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should talk to her and or go to a relationship counselor that always helps!
2006-06-28 12:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be supportive but explain to her that it really bothers you and maybe threaten to end the relationship
2006-06-28 12:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by datchic412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋