LADIES! why does she ask me to call her but she doesnt call me?

Question

I stop calling her about 3 weeks ago so i decided to call her last week to talk for a couple of minutes, while in the convo i tried to cut her off twice but she kept on talking so i had to tell her i really need to go now then she began to ask me questions why dont i call her no more n when is the next time i will call her, i told her if u dont call me i wont call u unless i really want too and that will be once in a blue then i asked why dont u call me she said she has been very busy and that i n 10 other people are on that list that she hasnt been in contact with so i told her then if u want to hear from me u need to call me, she said she will start calling me but she hasnt called me yet. i called her yesterday to see if she will be happy to hear from me, she was and she kept wanting to stay on the phone with me
my question is why doesnt she call me?????????
what should i do or say
by the way she an x gf of mine

Answer 1

Power trip.

Answer 2

The fact is that when you call her makes her feel important or lets her know that you care about her and want to talk to her. She never wants you to hang up cuzzz she likes talking to you and she asks why you don't call because she is afraid that you never want to talk to her. So, just tell her every so often how much you care about her. Then problem solved.

P.S. You told her you wouldn't call unless you really want to {once in a blue moon}. See what I mean. So then she just says she's busy so that she doesn't feel or seem desperate.

Answer 3

Im the same way. You dont want to feel like a bug a boo so you want the guy to call you. She probably doesnt have a list of people to call. She is probably bored most of the time.You are probably the only one on the list so when she hears from you she is very estatic. Call her more often. She doesnt want it to seem like she has no one else to talk to.

Answer 4

If she is an ex, it is quite possible she has no idea what her feelings really are. She might like other people, she might miss you terribly, but she makes you call her most likely so you won't think she's desperate or lonely. If she doesn't know how she feels, and if you're playing the "who's calling who game?", you either need to sit down and talk somewhere and make a decision, or move on. Hate to say it, but its what's best for your both.

Answer 5

she wants to know that u r there for her, but yet she got u trapped in her lil game all the same. if u want her to call go for weeks maybe months w/o talkin to her if shes misses u as bad as she would tell u then she will call. if she dont call shes not worth ur time.

Answer 6

Sounds like shes playing hard to get in a sense. Dude tell her one more time that she has to call you sometimes too, if she still doesnt, stop calling.

Answer 7

Females are complicated as I'm sure you are finding out. On occasion we want to feel like we have control. Butttt the fact of the matter is she is your ex for a reason, and maybe now you will see why.

Answer 8

I'm the traditional type....I think the guy is supposed to call the lady the 1st few times, but she can call u sometimes, too.

Answer 9

Perhaps she is uncomfortable calling men - some women were brought up to believe that calling men they are romantically involved with is rude, pushy, and whorish. She may be especially uncomfortable since your are an "ex".

Answer 10

Simple, she knows she cares about you, telling you to call her is like telling you to tell her how you feel, if you take the time to call her then you're interested and care, if not, then you aren't. she wants you to show her that you care, and thats how she gets you to do it. with women its all about reading between the lines, nothing can be as it seems.

Answer 11

shes playing hard 2 get she wants u 2 call her and cal her,cut her lose for a few days if shes really into u she will call u if she isnt call me i will u back!LOL