i have 2 girls which are not his, but he decides there punisment and then demands i go shopping for his tea. while looking after our son. and he soaks in the bath. then says i am wrong as i take other kids dancing with my kids. but it is in my nature to be kind to others. do you agree he is a prick
2006-06-28 04:13:39 · 63 answers · asked by tinawells_uk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
bloody hell woman! if you choose to have a bf that's up to you, but he should have no say in your kid's business! and if your nature is to be kind to everyone, then what the bloody hell are you doing with a selfish bastard like that!!!!!! you need to be with a kind person as yourself. get rid of that jerk and find yourself a good man who would care about you & your kids. i really dont understand women who love to be in abusive relations! if you want to screw up your life, that's your business.. but don't drag your kids into it as well. think A LOT before getting into relationships for your KIDS' sake!
2006-06-28 04:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by makalelelelelele 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you did not want the man present in the children's lives to have authority over them, then why did you move in with him in the first place? He may be overbearing, but as the man in the house he has every right to discipline the kids. It appears that when he does and you don't like it, they are suddenly "your kids" and he is a "prick"? You also appear to have a son with him. If he disciplines this boy, is that ok because the son is "his"?
What you need is to have a talk here - One, are you going BOTH going to commit to this relationship and adopt these ALL kids as your own? Two, find ways to actually parent the kids instead of having extremes of action. Three, if he is not pulling his weight around there, he must start. With any kind of fatherhood comes the responsiblity to the children as well as the right to discipline them, which of course, should be done gently, yet firmly, and without malice always.
2006-06-28 04:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Thom Thumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have started this question like this. MY X BF IS A REAL PRICK. Do all of you a favour do what nearly everyone has told you stay strong for your kids good luck
2006-06-28 05:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is a prick - but you sound like a bit of a slapper yourself and you have lousy grammar. You sound very suited to each other - both thick as turds - why don't you have some more kids just to be kind to them.
2006-06-28 21:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he is a big prick with a little prick which is why he feels he has to assert his Manley authority by trying to belittle his woman!! What a tosser! Go on give him a right hiding!!
2006-06-28 04:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I think you and your bf have major problems, I'm bloody confused as to who's competing with who on this site.
After answering 2 questions 1 from u and 1 from your bf neither of which i thought were connected., I find myself totaly bewildered.
You either both need counciling or you need to seperate.... either way there are children involved in this and they seem to be the pawns.
Please sort this out, it's embarrasing for you babe !!!
2006-06-28 06:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by sukimitchell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an anoying ruling controling prik! and as doctor phil would say you need to get counseling or something because if he wont watch his own kid but punishes yours thats a big problem. also you deserve better than being a maid to some lazy dude so get counseling or something! and be nice to others and dont let him bother you. if you want to take other kids dancing why does he have a problem? it is not like he is gona come with you!unless he is so bad he is worried he will loose you to a child.......
2006-06-28 04:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by rocknrollskwurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pricks to nice a word... I think @$$hole fits better! You seem like a caring young woman and he probably doesn't deserve someone like that, find a trailer park and dump him off at it, I'm sure he'll find someone to rule over in there.
2006-06-28 04:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by xxx SiT On My North Pole xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he sounds like a prick to me. Get rid of him for the sake of your daughters and yourself. He's no use to man nor beast behaving like that.
2006-06-28 04:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does sound like a prick but i disagree with people saying he shouldn't punish the kids. i have a three year old girl. who i've seen as my own even though i'm not the biological father, i've been there for her all her little life, and it is my responsibility to tell her when she's naughty and decide the punishment.......... yeah he's a dick though, you sound to good for him
good luck with it
2006-06-28 04:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by little bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋