Must I handle her,in any different way?
2006-06-28 04:02:55 · 37 answers · asked by justwan2know... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. What difference does it make?
2006-06-28 04:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have some friends who are gay. Being gay doesn't change the persons character.The things that caused you to be friends in the first place are still there. If you are worried that your friend will try to take advantage of you, don't be. She will respect the fact that you are not gay.Besides,it must have been very hard for her to admit that to you.She must value your friendship very much. That is a complement to you.I hope you stay friends with her.
2006-06-28 04:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Tyna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! She's exactly the same person that she was before she told you. I am heterosexual and I have a bisexual friend. I don't approve of some of her lifestyle choices but I'm her friend which means you support and accept the person that you're friends with, without judging them. You don't need to treat her any differently, you don't need to stop hugging her when you say hello or make sure that you don't touch her. She won't see you as a potential partner if you are straight so there's nothing to worry about at all.
2006-06-29 02:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you handle her in a different way?? I am married but am a closet Bi-Sexual - I haven't told anyone (or have acted on it since Ive been married) but I am afraid to come out because I am afraid my friends and family will think the way you do.
Has she ever come on to??? Doubt it - she is still your friend so what difference does it make, who she sleeps with. Are you going to watch - probably not, so just treat her the way you did before - she hasn't changed, she just told you something new about herself.
2006-06-28 04:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: How does she feel about herself?
Don't "handle" her at all. She'll know that you aren't being your real self. Listen, and don't be afraid to ask questions; at this stage there aren't any dumb questions.
Remember, she's probably afraid of what you will think of her, make sure that you are honest, but try to be tactful and caring if you have an issue with homosexuality.
2006-06-28 04:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by lsbf216@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er no... Treat he as part guy and part girl. Ie into make up with you but checking out girls like the guys...
She is still your mate so make sure she knows she still is...
Plus she may be able to spy on guys for you.
You could also try the guaranteed pull a guy trick with her. Ie kiss her , the guys go wild then let it be known that you are not sure if you want to stay as lesbian and open to conversion...
A guy resisting that would be like a dog trying to resist a fire hydrant
2006-06-28 09:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously trusts you. I don't think you should "handle" her any differently. She opened up and shared something with you. She didn't hit on you. She's still the same person she always was and who she loves should not affect your friendship. Be supportive of her and tell her you appreciate that she trusts you enough to share that with you.
2006-06-28 04:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by jonny'sgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just happened to me but I am female and my friend that confessed was male. I knew already because of his behavior but he is my best friend. Whe he told me I told him I knew already. He was afraid I would dislike him for this. I told him that I don't judge people by their cover and I loved him for what he was on the inside not by his choice of sexuality. That shouldn't matter. True friends understand no matter what their choices are in all different kinds of situations.
2006-06-28 04:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ultimate Trip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act the same way as you did before she told you she was gay she's still a person and your friend now if you have doubts then you make up your mind what you want to do
2006-06-28 04:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can handle her in many different ways now. The possibilities are endless
2006-06-28 04:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by intristik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just treat her as you always did. She is still the same friend. If it bothers you then I suggest talking to her and telling her exactly how you feel. Keeping your feelings inside will just bring you trouble in the future.
2006-06-28 04:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋