I met a guy from Sweden thru' on line. I'm going to fly to sweden to meet him. I want to get to know him and have a holiday too.
Am I doing the right thing?
2006-06-28 03:57:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure if your that desperate.
2006-06-28 03:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because your taking a risk with your life, although you don't say from where your flying, its still a distance to have to fly, so your going to a place where you may not ever have been to meet someone you never have met to establish a connection you made over the Internet...very unstable, were is the caution in this, at least bring a friend..what happens if its a total mis-match for you but he insist you try harder...do you really think you can avoid him within his own environment..will anyone ever know if you couldn't...to much can go wrong to say this is the right thing to do.
2006-06-28 04:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hear about so many weirdos on the internet . Oh my god that reminds me of a case in Germany the guy met another guy on the internet met him ...and what happend well he was a canibal ! serious I am not joking ...okay quetsion why are you going to Sweden ?? A foreign country ...do you know anyone there (besides him ) if you need help ?? Why is he not meetting you where you live ...where as a woman you can meet with a friend for safety ?
2006-06-28 04:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an independent Spirit. You should be okay with just going there to meet with him. If you both lighten up and have a good time with one another, you may wish to return at some point and take it further with him. The one thing, as a Scorpio, that you must be careful NOT to do is - back yourself into a corner, as you have in the past. No wiggle room. Stuck. So, if you can just keep lots of personal space aroound you at all times so you can lift up your elbows and not bump into anything, if you can avoid being in the corner of a room watching the floor paint dry, then you should be all set! You are no stranger to being boxed in. It's the one thing you really don't like at all. So, other than that little caveat, have a great time for yourself! I hope the weather cooperates for the two of you and that you can play outside. I am here in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A., where it's been rain and murk for over thirty days. We are all going bonkers, and would like to come out into the sunshine and play. When you and your friend are together, have a good time for all of us who are stuck over here in the states under gray skies and raindrops! I send this to you with lots of good energy and hope, if nothing else, your visit with him will enlighten your desire to get to know him a little better. Follow your instincts while you are with him and you will have few regrets. I sort of envy you, being able to go and get to know someone you're fond of. Have a good time, now. With warm feelings and lots of support from, Chris. (I am 63 years old.)
2006-06-28 04:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,I wonder why he is single,there are gorgeous women in Sweden,unless he has bigger plans,like wanting to marry you to come to America.
Make sure you guys use a webcam so you know what he looks like.Does he work,is he married,you need to ask alot of questions.I hope you guys talked for awhile before you buy expenisve tickets!If you wanna see him,go ahead,you are an adult,just don't expect too much,things seem exciting when online the you meet him and things fade after the first day.
2006-06-28 04:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by willywonka172 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ,do you know anybody in Sweden ? If no,report to your embassy and consulate after you landed Sweden.To see someone you don't really know him other than on line,is a little bit risky,but as a vacation that's a great idea.
A question for you, which cities you're planing to visit ? I have some Swedish friends,I might get more information for you .
Be alert ! Be caution! be careful !
2006-06-28 04:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by canada2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends...If you believe in him and u really want him and if ur sure he feels the same to you then decied...online is not really true...anyway its your decission...I live in sweden by the way...these days weather sux here...so don't fly now...wait 2 weeks...then weather will get better too.have a nice time in sweden and good luck
2006-06-28 04:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not do it because you think you know him but you really don't. You two are only going by what you all are saying. He might be a killer.
2006-06-28 04:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring along a friend!
2006-06-28 04:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Trust me I'm a genius. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i meet very nice lady from singapore im so happy to meet her. i think her so nice and very good. so i vill have lovely hollyday vith her. many kisses renee
2006-06-28 04:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by stefan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you no haw manny bad people their are on this earth he could be a child ubducter or something and he could be like 44 or sumpthin
2006-06-28 04:03:06 · answer #11 · answered by qwerty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋