I talked to him over the phone. Sounds good, everything am looking for in a mate, spiritual, he did tell me my words is my bond, so l'm thinking if your word is your bond why haven't you called. I have called him only to get his voice mail. so do i keep calling until i speak to him or just move on. what you you do?
2006-06-28 03:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by fly girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say hell no..don't call him..becuz that puts him in control ..it shows that you re weak..just move on..You'll find someone better, trust me..* i did*..
2006-06-28 03:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
merely save on reducing him off if he comes to a decision to deviate from the element that he observed as you about initially. each and every time he alterations the concern... DRAG him back to the only which you've been both on earlier...it would take a great number of work initially yet i'm certain eventually he receives the flow or he will be the only which hates chatting with you because you wont enable him communicate for 20 minutes LOL ... or you may want to easily lie and tell him you're able to flow .
2016-10-13 22:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by vesely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on This guy didn't have the decency to at least call you and let you know what happened. Now if you find out that maybe he was in some type of trouble or danger then you should reevaluate the situation. But for now it seems as though you should move on.Trust me there are more people out there for you.
2006-06-28 03:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Love-Me-Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how long you talked to him over the phone....But I will have to say...
There are to posibilities......
1) he was playing you and he has moved on....
2)Something happened to him or a family member and he is busy...
I would wish for option 2.....
So if you have a phone number for him..(as you do)....Call him and leave a message and go on with your life and see if he calls you back.....Keep an open mind...It may be something out of his control that is keeping him from calling you...
If you feel that option 2 is way of base......Move on and look for another......There are plenty of good guys out there.....
Yes I do agree there are some freaks......But there are some good guys out there also..
Just be careful and enjoy life....
The number one thing is..........ENJOY LIFE.........
2006-06-28 04:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by tanear1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It's easy to chat over the Internet and say things you don't mean, so get rid of him and find someone not on the Internet that you can actually meet. He's probably married with 10 kids. You don't know. Good luck.
2006-06-28 04:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call and give him the chance to make up an excuse. Because if he didnt show just becasue he was flaking then obviously he is the type of person that would lie and make excuses. On the other hand if something actually did happen to him, then you should still not call. He would call you and tell you. Good Luck.
2006-06-28 03:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by cutebunny187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes that shyt is easier to talk on the phone or chat than it is to live up to. last time I did it, I was disappointed but I kept my word because I said I would, I don't ever lead anyone down that road again. if you are going to drive several miles for an unknown, you better have good info. meeting someone out of the blue isn't easy.
2006-06-28 03:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously his word is NOT his bond. You got new information - do not waste another second on this deal. Find someone you can trust and that you deserve. DO NOT waste any more energy on this person - a liar.
2006-06-28 04:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by limeyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have left more than one voice mail then I feel that's sufficient because even if he didn't get the message he would have called by now if something shady wasn't going on, such as his gf intercepting such a call...if you should try and call again and get a voice mail, leave your ph# for anyone to call and explain what has happened...hopefully nothing tragic but most likely it was something deceptive.
2006-06-28 03:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't even know this person...he was feeding you a line of bull..If you give out your name and number over the internet, you are asking for trouble
2006-06-28 04:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He is obviously not honest or dependable. Honesty is the most important characteristic in a potential interest.
2006-06-28 03:56:28 · answer #11 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋