What's wrong with a guy if he is suddenly getting annoyed by everything you do?

Question

Is it male PMS? and what should a girl do in these situations?

Answer 1

I'm guessing maybe there are other things upsetting him... like too many other things in life are not going his way... Perhaps his mind is so heavily fixed on these other situations that he has no time for any more -- that may be any thing (any thing!) you do or say. If he needs time to think about situations, his mind may not be able to tolerate one more "any thing" that he has to respond to -- whether it is "Is it raining outside?" or "How are we going to pay the light bill?" All he can do is "snap" or appear annoyed at you, because that somehow (he thinks) gives him more time to ponder his situations -- he "needs to" get back to worrying. It could be things he over heard at work (like "sales are down") and he's worried about future lay-offs. It could be the cost of living is going up and his pay isn't. It could others (seemingly) out to get his job. It may be unbearable "office politics".

I may be way off base. But you (in my opinion) need to find a time when you can talk to him. Find out what the other things are that might be aggravating him. Talk things out -- and don't cry! Be encouraging and support -- if those situations call for it.

If a person is not feeling well, too, he/she might snap at the slightest things. Even if he is just tired, he may snap. Eat right, exercise, rest.... both of you.

You didn't mention your/his age. Could it be a "middle aged crisis"? That, you should talk to him or others about who may have experienced the same thing. But my best advice is to talk to him. Couples need to be able to talk about ANY situation if they want their marriages to work. Good communications is key -- open and honest communications.

Good luck.

Answer 2

It could be male PMS. He could think you've done something. Have you? Or he could be ill, or getting better- people are renowned for getting grumpy on the way to health. ...... Get out of his way a little, smile, and ignore it for a while and hope it goes.

I normally tell my wife if she's done someting wrong and then I go into grumpy mode.

Answer 3

He may have a chemical imbalance. That can cause irritability. You should sit down with him and see whats really bothering him. If he can't explain it then he's got a medical problem. Thats very common these days. He just needs to go to his doctor and tell him his feelings. They will try diffrent meds on him and eventually come up with a good med for him. Good luck

Answer 4

Before jumping the gun, and getting a bunch of crazy ideas, sit down and talk to him, its better to be honest with the way you are feeling then beat around the bush and jump to conclusions.

Answer 5

Oh, gosh, there's lots of reasons that could be happening. It's possible that he wants to break up, and is looking for excuses to dump you. ("Oh, of course I should dump her, she chews too loud!") Or maybe you've been smothering him lately, or something totally unrelated to you is bothering him. Ask him what's up, or maybe just give him his space for a week or so.

Answer 6

Maybe he's just upset by problems and his mind is in chaos or if maybe he is so suffocated by your over zealous affection to him and over care is too suffocating.. maybe you should give him enough time to think things by himself... just try to understand the person.. Just give him time and space, he will just come to you if he misses you! Time will also tell if he already loses interest in you!

Answer 7

maybe he wants to breakup. or hes just feelling down about stuff and isnt the type who likes to talk openly about personal affairs.

Answer 8

Maybe there is something bothering him and it isn't you. Sometimes you don't know what is wrong with people until you ASK THEM!

Answer 9

He has found someone else

Answer 10

ingore him
dont worry he will get over it