2006-06-28 03:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Nemo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ln fact we don't love each other, the love does
2006-06-28 03:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be either. Depends on the person, people look for different things at different points in life. Maybe you start out looking for love, but later you grow up and fall in love with a person, and the love is a bonus. Some people have only ever fallen in love with love, and never been fortunate enough to fall in love with being with someone for who they are.
2006-06-28 10:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a subjective question with no objective answer. Reason being is that's something you have to decide for yourself. The correct thing is to be in love with the person. If you are in love with the idea or ideal of love, then you aren't focusing on the other half of your affection. And that's bad. Because love is about two people coming together. Being in love with love is about coming together with the concept...the idea of loving someone else. And that's not real.
Hope that helps...
Peace and B well,
J
2006-06-28 10:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Raw Rugged Remix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually a really good question and i think it is different for each person and for that matter each situation i think that some people are just in love with love while others actually take time to get to know that person and they fall in love with them. that was a really good question though
2006-06-28 10:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times time that we are in love with love. I have been nothing people over the age of 50. (I am only 20) Single people Wonder when they will find somebody, but say they are happy having their own place. I notice marred people put up with many things. At least the couples that are still marred. But they always have someone their to share their lives with. Its your choice. Put up or be alone. Hope that helped. Maybe they love the person to put up with them. And the people who love love are waiting single.
2006-06-28 10:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nice girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at first we are just in love with love but eventually we fall in love with the person...that is if its the right person.
2006-06-28 10:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Froggy*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we fall in love with the person, love is just the feeling
2006-06-28 10:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Prisca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to u. If ur in love with love, ur gonna be in love with a lot of people, maybe even at the same time, but if ur in love with a person, chances are, u guys'll be together exclusively for a whle before the feeling fades and ur back on the market again.
2006-06-28 10:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u fall in love with the person, not love itself
2006-06-28 10:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by w17js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, it is really the person you're in love with. Your heart should tell you that. Some people are in love with love. They will go with anyone, jump from person to person, and tell each and everyone of them they love them. Not the type of person you want to be with.............
2006-06-28 10:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a thin line to being i love with a person and being in love with love. When your that close, remember the saying of Kahlil Gilbran " Let there be space in your togetherness ". That ought to give you clarity. charlesbdelarama@yagoo.com
2006-06-28 10:38:33 · answer #11 · answered by charlie d belmonte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋