Would you prefer he look at other guys?
2006-06-28 02:57:36
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Im sure that if an attractive guy walks past you that you at least acknowledge it on some level and to say that you have never done that is just a lie in itself. There is nothing wrong with looking at another person and finding them attractive so long as you do not act on it because then it goes beyond the boundary of being harmless and natural to selfish and disrespectful. However, I think that the problem isn't so much with you boyfriend looking at someone else but rather with your own self-esteem because it must be low if you are at least on some level comparing yourself to and worrying over some girl that he notices. If he wanted someone else he would not be with you and if you begin to stress over the fact that he looks at other girls the only outcome will be pushing him away from you and into some other broad's arms. So unless you gauge his eyes out theres not much you can do...good luck:)
2006-06-28 03:05:37
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answered by serenity113001 6
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The simple answer is, as long as he's not disrespecting you, don't let it bother you. I mean if he's just looking, that's okay. It's not a real expectation that a person isn't going to look because beauty is relative. The thing that made him attracted to you will be the same thing that makes other men LOOK at YOU. Whether they do it around their girlfriends, or not, isn't a cause for concern so much as how they do it. If they look have the thought and move on, no crime no foul. But if they look and look and look and they're right with their women, well a dog looks for bones wherever he can. Feel me? But if he's looking and ogling and undressing them with his eyes right in front of you, that's disrespectful, ma. And that doesn't show he has any value for you.
I used to be married and my ex knew I looked. But I never made a big deal or stared or embarassed her or myself.
Hope that helps.
Peace and B well,
J
2006-06-28 03:02:49
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answered by Raw Rugged Remix 1
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Unfortunately, that's a way of life. They all look and so do we. You can't tell me when you see a fine man you don't look. There is nothing wrong with looking as long as he doesn't touch. Now, if he's looking in front of you and staring, then his *** is just rude and you should let him know that that bothers you. Also, you have to realize he's fine and sexy and he's with you. Be secure enough in that and trust he'll behave and don't worry about it. Don't let him disrespect you, but let's be for real - WE ALL LOOK!
2006-06-28 03:12:47
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answered by Gigi 2
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We are romantic fools and think that once they start dating us, they only have eyes for us, but that just isn't the case - men have wandering eyes. It's just that some guys are much better at hiding it than others.
He isn't disrespecting you... he's just a man.
If he were to approach these women and flirt with them, THEN you have a problem.
But if he's just looking, it isn't a problem. Don't worry. I mean hey, I know you check out good looking guys. Admit it! ;)
2006-06-28 03:00:14
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answer #5
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answered by fallenangel 2
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boys and men will always look. Does he stare, make facial gestures or touch others? Looking is not a bad thing as long as he looks at you that way too.
2006-06-28 02:59:53
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answered by loveseat 2
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If u wanna stop him , jus keep 500 copies of yourself around him coz thts the no of places guys goin to look
2006-06-28 02:59:47
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answer #7
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answered by monte 2
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guys do that they look at other girls. girls look at other boys, but no one does anything. He just looks but he's with you and thats what really counts. That one person was right at least he's not looking at other guys.
2006-06-28 02:59:37
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answered by Anonymous
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All guys look at other girls sometimes dont let it bother you.
2006-06-28 02:58:26
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answered by Lauren 3
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Lady,It's human nature to look at the opposite sex.As if you don't check out other guy's...Come on...
2006-06-28 02:59:59
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answered by ? 5
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